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I can't choose a guy!
14/f. There are 2 guys, A and B. I have liked guy A for a really long time and have a strong liking for him. I have only liked guy B for a short amount of time and I don't really like him that much. One of my friends told them both that I like them but she told A that I like B more. Now I don't know if A likes me because he thinks I like B more then him. I just want to date A because we would be so cute! I don't know what to do because I think B is going to ask me out and idk if I want to say yes because I don't want to give up on A. Please help!!!!!
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First, just because a guy asks you out, you are not obligated to go out with him. So if B asks and you don't care for him, just tell him nicely that you are not interested in him right now, no matter what he may have heard from others.
Then you talk to A and let him know you've liked him for a long time and you are aware that some others may have told him you are actually interested more in B, and you want him to know that isn't true. You might let him know that anytime in the future that he hears anything concerning you, he's welcome to come and ask you rather believe gossip. Then, rather than wait for A to ask you out, you ask him out. Girls can ask out boys these days you know.
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Tell A you like him. Turn B down.
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Tell A, that "hey if my friend said anything to you about liking this other guy that its just not true" and then thats your chance to get him to admit if he likes you.
Also how long has it been since A knew you liked him but didnt do anything about it?? if its been a long time then he might just not be that into you and might be OK with you going for another guy for a reason.
If you havent known B that long and you know A better as a person then i would go for A. Theres a better chance there that since you know him more that your relationship will last longer. ; )
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