It's quite loving and considerate of you to want to make him happy. But, depending up what you mean, you may be being a bit unrealistic.
Yes, if you mean you want to make sure he is satisfied in your relationship and won't try to look elsewhere for intimacy or sex, you have a right to expect that for sure. It's totally and completely reasonable.
However, if you get upset because he may look at another girl or think some woman in the grocery store is kind of hot, you really can't think it is reasonable to stop that. It is inherently part of human nature, especially when it comes to the generic makeup of males.
So simply put, as long as he's not actively seeking someone else to be with, I think you are in a good place in your relationship. [ Pittguy's advice column | Ask Pittguy A Question ]
missundersmock answered Thursday December 4 2014, 1:57 am: I hate to break this to you but thats just not possible. if your in his heart then you WILL be all he will want and that will never change.
the only thing you can do is try to be his best friend. Alot of happy long term married couples STAY together because they feel like they got to marry their best friend. So act as a best friend would and expect the same in return and if you truely are in his heart then he will remember that and not want anyone else.
Unfortunately hes still a male, and they WILL still glance here or there at other women but thats just how they are and theres no harm in it as long as their not staring while your with them or engaging with them. [ missundersmock's advice column | Ask missundersmock A Question ]
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