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need help to convence for sex with my girlfriend
how i convience to my girlfriend doing sex with me..??
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I'm going to tell it to you straight so pay attention!!!
You cannot and should not even try to convince anyone to have sex with you. TO do so is seual harrasment. Once someone tells you no then the answer is NO and you must stop asking or in anyway trying to convince that person to have sex with you or do anything sexual with you. That includes Petting, Oral Sex, Handjobs or Fingering. If you do continue you are committing SEXUAL HARASSMENT A FELONY IN MOST STATES.
Sexual Harrassment is on the very top of the watch list in all states followed by Bullying. If you were to be reported to the police, which we would recommend if she was to write to us. You would be prosecuted, very possible in adult court. Meaning you could get jail time. This is how seriously this is taken.
Where I live two 16 year old boys were just sent to prison for 10 years for sexual harassment and rape. They will do 5 years in Juvenile detention and 6 years in state prison. They were charged with harassment and when she finally gave in they were charged with rape for it was forced consent. Read the papers this is happeing in every state.
YOU DO NOT FORCE OR TRY TO CONVINCE SOMEONE TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. The courts are dealing out harsh punishments to those that are prosecuted because the public in general are tired of teenagers thinking they can get away with this type of thing that there age will protect them. It won't, times have changed. If you are prosecuted and fortunate enough to go to juvenile court then besides what ever punishment juvenile court hands down you will be expelled from school. All this plus your parents will incur thousands of dollars in legal fees.
Is all of this worth it for something you can take care of with the same satisfaction in the privacy of your bedroom. If your girlfriend is unwilling then masturbate. The relief you get is the same, and it is safer for both of you. When she is ready she will let you know. I'm positive she knows what you want and when she is ready she will let you know, no harassment is needed.
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Sex isn't like doing the laundry or walking the dog. You don't "convince" someone to have sex if they're not willing. If shes not ready, you only have one of two choices: respect her wishes or break up with her and find someone who is more willing to have sex with you.
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Well first off you shouldnt have to "convince her" if shes not ready and you force her thats rape my friend.
you could talk to her about it and maybe try dry humping and/or fingering her first while you make out to relax her first and THEN see if she wants to go all the way, but i wouldnt force the issue. There may be other reasons she doesnt want to yet. she may have suffered abuse and the thought of sex brings back those memories for her. So just allow her to take it slow and try again later.
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