adviceman49 answered Monday November 3 2014, 10:12 am: We have a saying hear in the states; "You barking up the wrong tree." Meaning you are going about this all wrong and will fail. There are a lot of things you may be able to convince people to do for you or with you; Sex is not one of them.
In order for two people to want to have sex there must first be an attraction and then a desire. After these two have firmly established the two as a couple comes the want. You just can't walk up to someone and say lets have sex and then try to convince them that would be sexual harassment and India probably has law against sexual
harassment.
The there is there is the fact that your married cousins sister may also be you cousin If she is you cousins sister or sister in-law. no problem s she is a sister then it could be incest. Sex with her then is probably against the law and your religion.
My suggestion is you forget about your cousins sister and find some one else. Just make sure you both are above the age of consent before you engage in sex. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Sunday November 2 2014, 9:29 pm: You are going about this wrong. It's not a matter of convincing or talking someone into it, or forcing them, it's about two people mutually developing feelings for each other and both having the right chemistry, meaning they both feel a sexual attraction for each other.
Life isn't always fair. Sometimes, one person feels the attraction and the other doesn't. Sometimes, the guy is just horny and any girl will do to have have sex with but the girl usually wants to feel loved by the guy to be able to want to have sex. For females, it's more than about sex, it's love making. If two people end up not having any chemistry in common, it is called pheremones in english, it's a body chemical each human lets off into his/her surroundings, can't see it or smell it, but the glands that pick up on scents do take it in and are either attracted to a similar pheremone or it's so different, they are repeled by it. If you want sex for sex sake, then find a woman who sells herself for sex. If you want a full blown relationship with the girl that hopefully also ends in sex, then start caring about who she really is inside, not just what she looks like on the outside. She may not feel any attraction to even want to date let alone have sex. So thats my advice for you. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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