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guy help!


Question Posted Friday October 17 2014, 6:31 pm

So there is this guy ( Im 13 btw ) and he told a few of my friends that he likes me. He told them he was going to ask me out today, but he got to scared so he didn't. He told them he was going to ask me out monday. I don't know what to say. I like him i just want to know do i say yes or sure? and another thing, how do i make it less awkward? I want to talk to him, but in a fun, flirtish kind of way... help!

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Dragonflymagic answered Sunday October 19 2014, 1:34 pm:
Now if this is all for sure, you know he likes you but chickened out, then don't wait for him if he likes you. Take the pressure off for him and you approach him and ask to hang out or go out if there is something specific like going to a movie, a school dance or out to a fast food joint together.

Boys like it when you can honestly laugh at something they say. So if you can get him into conversation and do so , you'll be doing fine.

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lightoftruth answered Saturday October 18 2014, 12:39 am:
If you like him and would like to go out with him then say yes.
Yes will definitely make him more confident and happy he approached you.

I like the other adviser on making plans to hang out. It'll make it less awkward.
I imagine it would be awkward if he asks you out then you say yes and you guys are like, "Okay, cool" then awkwardly leave. So just make plans to do something later and then you can give him a hug or something and tell him you'll talk to him later. Exchange numbers if you don't have it already or something.

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storageanddisposal answered Friday October 17 2014, 9:23 pm:
Yes is better than sure, because it's more absolute. Sure kind of sounds like, "I guess," less certain. So I would go with yes.

I imagine since both of you are so nervous, neither of you are sure what to do next. To make things less awkward, try to think of what to do next and talk about it. Is it going to see a movie? Going to a halloween party perhaps? Talk about things such as these.

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