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i dont know what to do


Question Posted Thursday October 9 2014, 6:50 pm

I just wish everyone would leave me alone ..

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adviceman49 answered Friday October 10 2014, 11:24 am:
Okay something is definitely bothering you. we might be able to give you some advice if you would share what is bothering you.

Not knowing what is bothering you the best advice I can offer you is this. When I wish to be left alone to chill out or just to be alone in my misery I go into the room we jokingly call my office. It was my office before I retired now it is just the computer room. I close the door and no one will disturb me.

If you just want to be alone with your thoughts maybe there's a place at home you can hide out for a couple of hours.

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laylaplavater answered Friday October 10 2014, 2:33 am:
We could at least help you if you just tell us why you want to be left alone.

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Dragonflymagic answered Friday October 10 2014, 12:07 am:
You don't provide enough information for us to know how to best give advice. All I can say is that every person needs some down time or alone time to recoop ones thoughts, energy, just chill, and regain their sense of personal well being. Some need more than others. I suggest you make that need known to others. Find a place indoors or out where you feel you recharge more easily.
If you are struggling with stress, depression, harmful addictions, or something else along these lines, then you can't expect people who care about you to leave you alone. They will intervene because they love you and want to see you better.

So, either you will be asking for alone time. Explain calmly you need this time to recharge and let stress go. All humans should be doing this, not all do.
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If you need more time alone than would seem normal, to exclusion of keeping up on ones responsibilities, chores, job, school, family, then you need to examine what is going on inside you. There are loners in the world but they still have responsibilities in the world and must interact with people. You may want to go talk to a counselor and get professional advice if things are out of balance. Cus wishing people would leave you alone is not going to fix your problem in that case.

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