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I think he likes me but he doesn't want a girlfriend.
Hello, I am female and 20, he is 22. I work as a cashier at walmart and this guy works in the Subway in my walmart. He just moved here a couple months ago and we started talking. One night, my parents were away for the week so I had a small party and he came over for a few hours. Where my friend thought he was cute and tried to get with him where he didn't reciprocate. He never answered her texts or anything and later told me he thought she had chronic bitch face. She stopped trying, he and I continued talking but not all the time. As time went on, we would talk more, I got his number from my friend. He never texts me first but he always replies. However, on his breaks at work, he would come over and talk to me. He would act like he had a question when he was talking to me so I wouldn't get in trouble. When I'm on self checkout, he would come and talk to me. One night, I was done before him so I waited with him until he closed to shop and he gave me a free cookie and then he walked me to my car afterwards and we talked at my car for an hour. He told me about how his aunt adopted him and how he moved around a lot, how he tried to go to college and how he realized it wasn't for him, he talked about how he wanted to have kids but didn't want to be "tied down" with a girl. Last night, he was finished before I was, so he came over and talked to me at self checkout. We were laughing and joking and everything and then he said he wanted to go home and sleep, he works three jobs so he barely sleeps. Before he left, though, he told me to text him and I brought up that he never texts me and he said he doesn't like thinking that he bothers me so he never texts me but he always answers mine. So, I told him to get home and rest and he went in for a hug before he left.
With said information, would you say he likes me? If so, why would he tell me he doesn't want a girlfriend? What should I do? I don't like texting him first all the time but we would never talk if I don't.
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well it's difficult to say whether he likes you or not!! but he never texts you first that shouldn't be a problem. you have to understand that all people are different from each other. every people have their own thinking. I think you should give him some hints about your feelings. if you think he have some feelings for you tell him that you like him. look if you never ask the answer will be NO always.if you ask then there would be 50% chance . and give him some time, tell him that you him that you can wait.
I hope everything will be ok.
good luck.
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Maybe at his age, he isn't ready to do the dating relationships and just wants females for friends only...casual like.
then again, he may not be sure/or may be sure of his sexuality and instead or hetero, is a-sexual, gay or bi and that's not an easy topic to bring up right at the beginning. Just enjoy the friendship for now and don't expect anything more from it. That way, if something more does develope, you can be pleasantly surprised.
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