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Well I did talk to him bout it
And like we dated for 5 months broke up on Sept 6
But ever since we broke up we are friends now
But the thing in really confused about is he's always giving hugs and kiss and always pulls me to sit near him
And our friends be tellin to go back out
He doesn't say anything and they say go back out with her she's ur gf and he be like she ain't my Gf
It makes me feel type of way around him like when he has that I'm not his gf more like ex gf but what type of ex still hugs & kisses their ex ??
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Hi doll,pull him aside privately and just have a talk.Or to casually bring it up in a conversation,say''Hey,I noticed that you give me lots of hugs and kisses,and I was curious,if you still like me? Sorry,I just feel confused'' something along those lines
Your ex may still have feelings for you,but is ashamed to admit it,or is too prideful to tell you,and maybe is waiting for the right time to say he likes you still.
Its all a possibility,but please try and ask him,and see where it goes
Be blessed
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Well, now that you told me more, I would have to say that this is confusing.
Perhaps you will have to tell him you don't mind remaining friends but that you have your own set of boundaries that you expect him as 'just as friend' to follow. To you and most all other people, an ex partner does not kiss and hug the same way after a break up. You move to treating each other platonically.
I told my husband your story to get a man's perspective regarding what your guy is doing.
He's said that this guy can't expect the privileges of a dating couple without making the commitment to be your boyfriend. The only exception he said is if both of you are okay with just being sex partners (fuck buddies in his terminology). I have to agree. If you both are okay with the agreement that this is not a love relationship, just for sex then thats fine for him to behave this way. Of course later one or the other will move on once they find the person who wants to be all for them.
So you will just have to spell out for him that you do not want to get that type of behavior from him. Besides being inappropriate, if you wish to say how it makes you feel, that would be proper to do too.
Wishing you the best, that Fate brings you the right guy who will not only value you but love you fully.
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