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my bf broke up with me
my bf broke up with me and i acctually thought we had a great connection he told his best friend it was his grades but he told everyone else i dont know why i broke up with her. so do any of you know any resons beside of his grades he would have broken up with me.
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If you didn't leave anything out, it looks like he Talked to everyone but you about it as you said, his best friend, and classmates. There is no reason why you can't ask him and ask why if he hasn't told you anything at all. It would be common courtesy to give some kind of explanation to you, but lots of people when first dating or even later, haven't figured out yet what attracts them to a person, what the purpose of dating is or how to break up if they want out no matter what.
If he told his friend it was because of his grades, that is probably closer to the truth than what he said to just other kids he's not close to. It's none of their business so when asked why not dating you, it's easier to just say "I dont know why"
I have read that males can prioritize important things in their life and will keep as top priority the 3 most important with others falling somewhere else on the totem pole. Things a guy will juggle in importance is" School and studies, job if there is one, his family, his friends, any team/sports he's on and a girlfriend.
It a guy is good at organizing his time properly, he should be able to handle more than just grades. Perhaps he wastes time alot, not buckling down to do homework. Yes, thinking about a girl can be a distraction...what guy isn't thinking about women at any given time? And they still handle all their other responsibilities.
You won't find him admitting he has been lazy and dodged doing homework if thats the case. He truly should be able to handle having you as a girlfriend, even if you're not a top priority cus his after school job and sports team comes first as well as family commitments. But cutting you out totally? I'd say something is up and someone isn't telling the whole story. So ask him.
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Hi there,they are many different factors as to why he broke up with you
It may or may not be his grades,and maybe his parents wanted him to focus on school instead of a girlfriend
Also,depending on what type of friends he hangs out with,it is possible,that they may have influenced him in some way
Last possible thing,is that maybe he got too scared being in a comitted relationship
Be blessed dear one,and also,if you want,think about this,ask him discreetly why he broke up with you
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