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me being self conscious
I feel like my vagina is ugly is this normal
What if my boyfriend thinks its gross
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He'll be happy to see it. Doesn't matter what it looks like.
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I can tell you factually, since I am a guy, that none of us look at a vagina and think it is ugly. As a teenager or young adult if we are fortunate enough to see our girls vagina then what we are thinking is not what it looks like but "is she going to let me put my penis in her vagina and have sex?"
"When we get older and marry the vagina becomes the most beautiful thing in the world. Especially the day it delivers your firs child. As the father you’re in the delivery room and watch as you child suddenly appears from your wife's vagina. It is the most beautiful thing in the world to watch as a new life is born. The doctor hands you a pair of scissor you cut the cord and the nurse hands you your child who is only minutes old. You look back at your wife's vagina and you think when we can start making another baby.
No there are no ugly vaginas' only beautiful ones. At different ages a male sees a different beauty in a vagina but never ugly.
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No it is not worrying or unusual for a woman to have a feeling that her vagina is visually not very attractive. But it is a very sensitive part of your body, responsible for providing you with very strong pleasurable and satisfying feelings, and it is a very significant and symbolic part of being a woman and your sexuality. So I hope you don't HATE YOUR VAGINA. That would be quite worrying. You don't do you? You just think it doesn't look very attractive? That's no problem. Dismiss any idea that your boyfriend will find it gross, ugly in appearance or in some way an undesirable aspect of you. I virtually GUARANTEE he won't. Quite the opposite! Unless he's got some sort of unusual phobia or hang-up about such things...and that is his problem at the end of the day isn't it...not yours? Relax. I almost gurantee he'll love it. Try and think of it in the terms we discussed earlier rather than visual appearance. It's a special part of your physique, your womanliness and your sexuality. You don't show it to everyone, like you make-up a pretty face or show off your figure or great legs...and so on. But you would be a pretty odd woman without one, eh?? X
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