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Messy sex during period
Would a guy have sex if we had our periods ?? I know there's a lot of different opinions in this, but for all the guys out there does it turn you off ? Or are you guys fine with it ? What are your thoughts on periods ?
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I'm a guy and it doesn't bother me to have sex during my wife's period. In fact for some reason the urge to have sex when she is having her period is higher for me. I think it is because she gives of more pheromones or there is subtle change in her scent. The only thing I won't do and she doesn't ask for during this time is oral sex.
Know it also seem so to me that my wife is also, more sensual, I think that's the word, during this time. She seems to enjoy are sex more than when she is not having her period. About the only time she will say no to sex during this time is a day or two before and the first day of her period when her cramps may be bad.
During this time when we have sex we have old towels we use and at her request the lights are off. I'm comfortable either way and maybe it is me but I think the sex helps with the cramps. If that is truly the case and if for some reason I preferred not to have sex during this time. The fact is I love my wife and if sex made her more comfortable I could deal with my discomfort during this time.
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I am female and out of any guys I was close enough to have sex with after divorcing the ex who didn't like sex during periods, I found 3 who not only liked it but 2 of the 3 looked forward to it.
It really is just personal preference for the guys, just as stuff like anal sex, oral sex, etc.
You will obviously hear things like "its messy, it's gross, it's dirty, it smells or it's unhygienic or uncleanly.
Here's the comments I have gotten with the 3 the first time I said I had my period. "Thats fine with me. I just don't want you to feel uncomfortable or embarassed about it." "Do you know that to me, having sex during menstruation is almost like a spiritual thing to me, honoring and worshiping woman for her life creating abilities of which the period is a good reminder."
"YOu've got your period? Great, I love it cus we won't need to use lube!" "Don't worry, I love everything about you. This is part of you, so I have no problem with it."
What did I learn from having sex during my period?
My sex drive was not diminished in any way.
If it was the very beginning or very end of my period, once we started having sex, the body stopped the flow temporarily. As soon as we were done for say 10 min or so, the flow started up again. It was something I didn't know my body was capable of.
Laying towels out on the sheets made me feel more at ease, about not making a possible mess and towels are much easier to toss into the wash than stripping the whole bed.
The flow helped as lubrication to start.
If I had a heavy flow mid period, that was the only time it would be messier. Only once did it real really bad. After lovemaking I mentioned, I can smell blood really strong. We turned on the bedside light and discovered we both looked like there'd been a massacre! LOL we both were covered in blood from chest to knees and on hands and fore arms too. We laughed and went and took a shower.
The only reason ages ago women went sent to a separate hut while menstruating is that they didn't have the facilities we have today to keep ourselves clean.
Blood doesnt have a smell until it hits air, so the only smell is really what we smell of what has collected over time in our pads.
The only concern for a guy if he is going to be fluid bonded with you is whether you have any STDs or any blood born disease he could catch. Otherwise, blood itself is not dirty or uncleanly.
Just make sure to be showered so that the other area doesnt smell bad from wearing a pad and go for it. If you want to start with oral sex, thats do-able too. Just put tampon on, then freshen up. Have the oral sex, he can pull out the tampon and then enjoy the rest.
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