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Am i gay?
Well am a 15 year old boy with not much of a social life. When i get lonely which is most of the time, i tend to watch porn. Recently, i decided to try watching gay porn and i liked it very much. I even cum faster when i watch Gay Porn than when i watch Straight Porn. Could it mean that am gay?
Please help me.
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Gay means you are sexually attracted to guys. As in you want to date them. If you feel that way about guys you are gay, otherwise you are just experimenting which is normal for teens. If you are sexually attracted to both boys and girls then you may be bisexual.
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Not necessarily. Sexuality isn't something that you can define easily like everyone tries to make it. People have created all of these categories and the truth of the matter is, who really cares? Live your life and do what feels right. If you find yourself interested in another boy, awesome. If you find yourself interested in a girl, that's great too. Something like this, unfortunately, could confuse people though so be careful. For example, lets say that you're dating a girl who you really like and are sexually attracted to, but she finds out that you watch gay porn. It may be hard for her to understand. This doesn't mean that you should stop or that you should just be gay, it's just something to think about and have a good answer for. I wish you the very best of luck and remember, your sexuality is whatever feels right to you. Unless it's illegal! :)
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No this does not mean you are gay. If you were gay you would have known this long before you ever reached puberty as being gay is how you are born. Watching gay porn and liking it does not suddenly make you gay or even bisexual.
You are 15 right in the middle of puberty with all these hormones floating in you. You are trying to figure out who you are sexually. Until you actually experience different types of sex you will not know who you are sexually.
It is not unreasonable or meant that you are gay if your first sexual experience is with a same sex partner. It happens for both boys and girls. Why, simple it is safer and it is part of the sexual exploration all teenagers go through; it is normal.
Scientists and doctors now have found that being gay is part of a persons DNA and is how they are born. It is not something the wake up one morning and decide to be. It may seem that way as for many they are forced to deny their sexuality from an early age when they realize hey are different than others.
As for being bisexual scientists are still not sure. It just may be possible that bisexuality is an acquired sexuality. Transgendered people face the same problem as gays. These are people of one gender born into the bodies of the other gender. Medical science can now correct this mistake for them.
I have taken the time to go through all this for it is important for you to understand the different sexualities. You are who you are born to be, porn watching won't change that. It is important to understand this for you don't want to stick a label on yourself, especially at your age and especially one that says you're gay.
Unfortunately gays and other sexualities are not fully acceptable in our society. If you were gay, which I do not believe you are, then you should be proud you are and live with the gay community. But to come out at 15 would be dangerous for you as well. So be careful about calling out your sexuality once you discover fully what it may be; but gay it is not.
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Hey! First off, I would like to say that what type of porn you watch doesn't determine your sexuality. I have a straight female friend who prefers watching lesbian porn, but she's not lesbian and is not attracted to women. If you like gay porn but are not attracted to other boys, then you're not gay. At worst, that would make you a straight boy who is bi-curious.
Now, if you are attracted to other boys, then that's different. There wouldn't be anything wrong with that though! I'm a boy, but I've liked other boys since I was five years old (I am attracted to girls as well though, and I have a girlfriend, so I consider myself to be bisexual).
Whatever your sexuality is and whatever type of porn you like to watch, remember that you are actually perfectly normal. Many straight people watch gay porn and have bi-curious feelings at some point in their lives.
I hope that helps. :)
~ Kyler ♡
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