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Should I get a Rabbit vibrator?
Hi! I'm 13, do u think it would be Appropriate for me to get a rabbit vibrator like the one with the rabbit head for clit and the dildo moves around. Should I ask my mom for one or am I too young? Please help!!
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As a moderator on this site I can look back and see what other questions you have written since you are a registered user; no I can't see who you are only the questions. As someone who is old enough to be your grandfather I am becoming concerned.
You didn't like my answer to the last question I answered and you probably will not like this one. I am writing this because I am concerned and wish to offer you some advice.
In the past 2 days you asked 4 questions about masturbations and one about sexy panties. You say you're 13 years old. These questions seem overly concerned with masturbation which is what concerns me.
While masturbation is good and considered healthy it should not be and all encompassing activity. If it is then there is a problem that requires professional help. At 13 sex and masturbation should not be of this high an interest to you either.
You have enter puberty that is apparent. With puberty comes sexual awareness. Like everything
sex needs to have moderation and is not an all encompassing activity. Of course I cannot say from your question if it is or is not. It is just a feeling I am getting and I am concerned for your welfare.
Because of this I am going to ask you to do something I know you don't want to do but you need to do it. If you don't you could very likely end up being very unhappy and then writing to us letters or questions I really don't want to read.
I am asking you to talk to mom about your masturbation and sexual awareness. For I believe you are a bit too aware and your masturbation may be for to encompassing for your own good.
Just for the record. I knew this question was your even before I looked at the record history for confirmation.
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I can't say that there is an actual age that is too young because all females are different and go thru puberty at different times.
If you are having sexual urges at your age, then no, its not to young to use sexual toys.
But it is too young to be getting pregnant. Therefore toys are a much better option over finding a boyfriend to take care of the urges and desires.
You are only too young to purchase one yourself, so you will need mom to help out with that.
There are many toys out there. Most are battery powered and some can get quite expensive. For your first one, don;t settle for cheap cus even in sex toys, you get what you pay for. But then again, I have found many different ones to just be plain old poor design and they fail to make me happy. But I see nothing wrong with the rabbit. Focusing on something that will stimulate the clitoris is a very good idea with a secondary part that can be the dildo. There should be some sample toys with battery inside sitting on a display to turn on and see how much power goes to the internal parts to make it vibrate. And you can feel that with your hand. So if not sure, you or mom can always ask a clerk to put a battery in a model you're interested in and see how it feels in your hand. Make sure there are several different power settings, low, med. and high. ANd also option to run only the rabbit, only the dildo or both parts at once.
Good luck.
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If you want to talk to your mom about this, then talk to your mom about this.
I wouldn't really encourage a 13 year old to get a vibrator. Cleaned and cared for properly, there is nothing harmful about them. You aren't 'too young'. I just think you'd be better off learning about your body with your own hands and mind at this stage. Toys can be fun, but they can also help to create habits and dependancies aren't so much fun once you are ready to have sex with another person.
Don't try to jump off the deep end into toy land. Have fun with what you've got. Your most powerful sexual tool is your own mind. If you don't absolutely need batteries to enjoy yourself, then leave the props be for a few years.
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Okay so I think this is easy to relate to for me as I'm 13 and female. I went through a stage where it was just either feeling lonely or the complete opposite and being sexually active.
I would say that you should talk to your mum about it but don't ask for one. If you want that feel then just masturbate.
My personal opinion don't tell anyone you masturbate though okay.
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