Hi my right side hurts when I masturbate. I noticed it hurt yesterday when I went to masturbate, I masturbate with a 4inch marker and my electric tooth brush. When I stick the marker about 3 1/2 inches in my vagina my right side starts to hurt. I pounded my pussy a couple days ago is that why its hurting? Do u have any Suggestions that will keep it from not hurting? Or can I take a pill or something? Or is it because I pounded my vagina too hard? Please help!
There is not any over the counter medication you can buy that will stop muscle pulls. I'm told that low potassium can cause muscle pulls and eating a Banana a day which is high in potassium can help reduce muscle pulls.
It would be better if you stuck to the marker or found something that better resembled a penis to masturbate with. The toothbrush while it does give off a vibration can also hurt the interior of your vagina depending on its length. The average depth of a vagina when sexually excited is 6". If your tooth brush is longer than this you could be rubbing against your cervix and this is not good for two reasons.
1. Your vaginal has a certain PH level it maintains. Your mouth has a different PH level. Your toothbrush is a vehicle to mix these two levels. Plus the mouth has germs that should not be in your vagina. I understand about oral sex but this does not put the germs deep within your vagina the way your toothbrush may be doing.
2. The rubbing of your cervix by the toothbrush could cause a raw spot with which the germs from the mouth could settle in and cause an infection.
There is nothing wrong with masturbation. In fact it is even considered healthy in that it relieves sexual tension in a safe and healthy way. When masturbating there are a few more rules for the female since her sexual organ is internal. The most important one is to be very careful what you put in your vagina and make sure it is clean and not used by any other female. STD"S can be transmitted through the exchange of sex toys so be careful what you put in your vagina.
Other than that relax, take your time and allow yourself to explore your body while masturbating. Try eating more Bananas’ to see if it will help heal and reduce the muscle strain. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Saturday July 26 2014, 8:56 pm: If you are right handed and use that hand when masturbating, you are using certain muscles in a repetitive motion and depending on what muscles are being used, and if due to the intensity of what you are feeling you can tense up a lot more than just the vagina. It can the hand and arm doing the masturbating, I've had muscles cramp and hurt in my upper arm or in my leg so bad that I have to stop and massage the cramp out of my muscle or hubby does. And it doesn't matter if its me masturbating or him using a toy on me.
At the very back of your vagina is a nob like thing that feels like the end of your nose. Reach in and feel that, that is your cervix. When you are using any thing as a toy and do so very hard, either you are sometimes pounding on the cervix which can become tender or sore and might even bleed a drop of blood or two but it always recovers. Or if the object goes to a pocket of flesh to either side of the cervix, I know from experience that can hurt, especially if you hit a certain nerve ending , I experienced something like banging your elbow, that hitting the funny bone feeling, but more painful like a strong charlie horse cramp or electric shock going down my leg. I suppose everyone can be a little different in how that effects them.
The same things can happen with a live penis instead of a toy.
There is no pill to take to prevent it hurting. However using objects that are not actual dildo's with shapes other than that of the tip of a penis could be contributing to your problem. If you are too young to purchase your own dildo, perhaps it may be best to get over the embarassment and ask mom to help you get one. Short of that, I cant think of anything to avoid what you are feeling other than going a bit more lightly on yourself. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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