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friends or not?
So this is my first year doing color guard for marching band and I'm really excited. I love to spin, but sometimes I really don't understand the new work we are learning. All of us incoming freshmen feel the same way. So we are all partnered up with a senior guard partner and they help us. So mine is really, really, really good at spinning and she is so friendly and funny. We practice and meet up more than other color guard partners do on our team. We also always make funny memories during our private practices. Like 4 weeks ago when she told me all these stories about her first year spinning. Or like last week when my mom called me in the middle of our practice to tell me my grandpa died of cancer, and she asked if I was alright and I told her what happened and she hugged me while I was crying and she told me about her grandma who died of cancer only a couple months ago. And my favorite which was 2 days ago, after practice, we walked down to the village which is near our high school and we got ice cream at Ferches. We talked about band camp and color guard on the way there. But on the way back, we talked about personal things. She makes me laugh so much and I love to hang with her. But, are we really friends? I never had a real friend before because everyone just likes to be around me to see me do something stupid because I'm a klutz. I am really smart, but I am not common sense smart. I'm not sure if she truly is my friend and I don't want to ask her because that would be rude. I need help!!!
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HI! I'm in color guard too!! And i don't see any reason you should doubt a friendship between you and this girl. I wouldn't over think it :)
I'm a sophomore on my 3rd year, of guard. I love spinning with the marching band too :)
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Hi there! Why don't you think you and this girl aren't friends? She seems like she obviously cares about you. You said she hugged you when you found out your grandpa died right? And she took you out to ice cream after you guys practiced. She seems really friendly and nice. I have no idea why she wouldn't be your friend. You don't have to ask her, but maybe you should spend more time with her and get to know each other better to see how close you guys really are. But you guys are definitely friends. I hope this helped you. If you need any more advice, ask me on my page.
~glasses
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