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Boyfriend likes cartoon porn, but not intimate relationships.
My boyfriend has clearly admitted to liking hentai and other cartoon pornography but can not get an erection with me. He swears up and down that I am not the problem, that he is attracted to me, yet, I flaunt my naked body around him all the time and not even the slightest bit of arousal is seen in him. He stays limp. Everytime I ask him it's always "I don't know, I tell myself to get hard and it doesnt happen". I cant say what type of cartoon porn he likes because he hasn't shown me any of it, so, I don't know if its kiddy porn, or legimite adult on adult...I just know that he is into that and not into real porn, he won't watch the real life porn or even have sex with me. What can I do to help change that besides draw a picture of myself and wear it on my body?
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Why watch cartoons when the real deal is in front of him in person?
Can you accept this person with this glitch? You can't change this person unless they want to change. Odd addiction to have.
If I were in your shoes I would move on. Trust me that there are people out there who want your body, mind, and soul for good use for life. :)
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I am going to state what has to be glaringly obvious to the rest of the world. It is time to get a NEW boyfriend!He will NEVER be turned on by you. This relationship will NEVER work. For all you know he could be into kids or something illegal.Don't walk away, RUN!
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There is something wrong here just what that may be I can't say. I'm not a doctor and that is who he needs to see as this is not normal, at least I don't think it is if you two are young and in your sexual prime.
You could be right that his porn obsession is not for normal, or what is considered normal porn. One way to find out is if you are of legal age to get an adult Hentai DVD and watch it with him and see if he gets an erection. If not this will signal one of two things. This is not the type of porn he watches or he is incapable of getting an erection.
If he is incapable of getting an erection he needs to see a doctor. Actually 2 doctors, first his family doctor for a complete physical including a complete blood panel and cholesterol count. Then if nothing is wrong he needs to see a Urologist to see why he is incapable of getting an erection.
It is very possible he suffers from erectile dysfunction something he would probably not want to admit to especially to his girlfriend. If you love him then you need to have a talk with him and find out if he does have a problem becoming erect and staying erect. IF so get him to a doctor. If he refuses then I suggest to you that he may not be the boyfriend you want or need.
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