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He gets jealous easily when I'm with or talking to other guys?
So I'm 16 and I might have some feelings for this guy. He's a year older than me and we text a lot but hes hard to read and I don't know if he likes me back. He gets jealous easily when I'm with or talking to other guys. And he always wants to hang out. What do you think? Does he like me?
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If he gets jealous easily when you're speaking to other guys and he always wants to hang out with you, he most likely has feelings for you.
Make sure though that he isn't really overprotective and a jealous wreck if you guys start dating.
Anyway, good luck ^-^
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz
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He likes you but he sounds like an immature dick. All seventeen year old boys are immature dicks, though, so this is pretty run of the mill. Date him at your own caution.
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I might ask, how do you know he gets jealous? What does he say or do? But yes, sometimes if a guy gets jealous when other guys are talking to a girl they like, it can mean they are interested in the girl for themselves.
You did not say you two are dating yet, just that you might have feelings for him. If he's acting jealous when you two are not even dating yet, it won't be any better if you do date him. Jealous guys become worse when dating. I went to school with one who was just a friend in a class. I thought he was a nice guy just from observing him at school and guys with this problem can be nice in all situations until it comes down to a girl they have a claim on 'in their mind at least'. After we graduated, I ran into him while in line waiting for a movie. He had a girlfriend with him. Any time her glance happened to fall upon a guy other than my fiancee, he ordered her to stop looking at other guys or she'd have to pay. I have also read about guys who do this. This could be a sign that he may become very controlling or any female who decides to date him.
I remember how special it feels when a guy first pays this kind of attention to you, so you think they might like you. Its a good feeling to know you are attractive and have a great personality to catch a guys attention. Jealousy however is a negative attention...just a little warning dear.
If he asks you and you decide you do want to date him, before you say yes, set some ground rules and be strong enough to stick with them and the consequences you give him. Weak girls who don't will get abused and misused, not taken seriously.
An example for a rule and boundary might be, "I will date you but know that I will break it off the first time you show me that you can not treat me nicely. I have witnessed you acting jealous. You will not control me and tell me what I can do, what people I can talk to or spend time with, whether female or male. I am dating to learn what I like and don't like about guys. If you don't treat me well, I'll keep in mind the things I dont like, break it off and improve with the next guy I date. If you aren't okay with this right now, then I will not date you.
Of course, use words that are comfortable and sound like you but do give him a warning that he must treat you right. All people can pretend and be on best behavior only for so long before reverting to their real self once they think they have you. Its at that point that they mess up royally that you break it off. Why am I adament about this, I also married a guy who was on best behavior and became controlling and verbally abusive after I married him at 20.
A guy who is jealous is actually insecure about himself and thats why he acts jealous. He has a low self image and such. Maybe nothing bad will happen, but i felt it important to say something dear.
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