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is my teacher is flirting with me
Hello i am shivani a student my chemistry teacheralways gibes a smile towords me & he touched my hand 3times accidentally he look at me for long time while teaching
And sometime he ignore me is he flirting with me or i thinl much more
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Perhaps he was looking at you because he wanted to see if you were focusing on him like you should when he's addressing the class. Maybe he wasn't looking at you at all or intentionally. If someone accidentally bumps into you or your hand a few times it means nothing. Nothing is going on here that shouldn't be. You're making it more than it is in all honesty.
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The role of a teacher, especially in grade/high school, should always have a respectful distance. His job is to have influence over his students and if you are imagining he is using that role for sex, you need to behave in a way that makes the distance clearer to you both. I have seen a lot of student-teacher misconduct and it never ends well. He would lose his job. If you have a crush, realize that it's notmal, but cultivate friendships your own age, don't read too much into it and focus on learning chemistry during class.
If things keep happening, then he is harassing you, not flirting. The difference between your and his experience and influence is too unequal to be appropriate. He grades you for an institution that has an obligation to be fair and objective, and treating a classroom like his harem isn't treating pupils fairly or giving them the chance to learn in a professional, respectful environment. If he keeps touching you, pull your hand away and make it clear that's not his place, because it's not appropriate for him to use his position to touch students.
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I have known teachers to focus their eyes in a certain direction, focusing on a student or two in that area while talking to class because it feels most comfortable and natural to do so. I have felt I was stared at in a class or two myself. I don't know the circumstances under which he touched your hand 3 times but you did say it was accidently so people don't touch others accidently. They may intentionallly do so meaning to make it look accidently. From what you've written, I see nothing to think a teacher is flirting with you. I would just ignore such thoughts.
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