So my boyfriend and I broke up for about 2 months now and I was begging him to be back with me for a while.. We were together for almost 2 years and we've broken up once before but got back together after 3 months of me trying to see him and convince him. Well lately ive been in no contact with him for a month now and he's always checked my snapchat stories ever since. Suddenly yesterday when i posted a picture of me on instagram of my trophy from tae kwon do competition he liked it right away. What does that like mean? I still have feelings for him but im trying not to hurt myself with high hopes but its hard still. The purpose of me in NC is just for me to heal a bit, improve myself, and ultimately make him miss me.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? GiddyGeezer answered Monday May 19 2014, 7:54 pm: You are on the right track by trying to improve yourself. Learning new skills and building self esteem are very important for a bright and self reliant future!I am going to be very blunt for a moment so please hear me out. Begging is for DOGS, not confident and secure young women! Please do not EVER beg, this will only diminish you in his eyes and make you look pathetic!If you have to try to convince a guy to take you back listen carefully:HE IS NOT WORTH IT! Look at all you have accomplished so far! You don't need him to validate you. Be proud of yourself. Continue to do things like this for yourself and someday a wonderful young man will come along who deserves you. This guy you're hung up on is not the one for you, you can trust me on this. Good luck! [ GiddyGeezer's advice column | Ask GiddyGeezer A Question ]
misspiggy answered Monday May 19 2014, 3:43 pm: I would not read too much into the like. But, if you want to get back together with him, tell him. If you do not feel he is the one for you, it is time to move on. Only time can heal your broken heart, just like only time can heal his broken arms and legs.
adviceman49 answered Monday May 19 2014, 4:11 am: Sometimes things are meant to be and sometimes they are not meant to be. You can try as hard as you want you cannot force something to happen either. It would appear you are more in love with this boy then he is with you and are reading way too much into a simple liking of a photograph.
In liking your photo all he really did was congratulate you on your award. You do not have to be in love with someone to congratulate then just be their friend or even a distant acquaintance.
My suggestion is you start looking for a new boyfriend. One who will love you and treat you for the person you are. Someone who will let you know how much you truly mean to him. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
WithKissesKiera answered Monday May 19 2014, 12:16 am: You should never do anything to try and make somebody fall back in love with you or notice you in anyway, if you guys keep breaking up then it's obvious something there that isn't meant to be And him liking your picture just simply means he liked it I don't want you to get your hopes up high like you said it's best to play it cool and if he wants to continue the relationship he will contact you. Keep me posted , with love kiera xoxox [ WithKissesKiera's advice column | Ask WithKissesKiera A Question ]
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