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How to spark boyfriend's interest again?
Boyfriend is withdrawing how to spark his interest again
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I wish I knew what "withdrawing" means to you but I am going to assume he just doesn't seem as interested. Without knowing the history I hope we can rule out the old "I gave him sex and now he doesn't know me" scenario! If everything was fine before and you think he is just getting bored then shake things up a little bit! Have you ever watched Grease? I am not recommending you wear a skin tight body suit or smoke cigarettes but do get out of your rut! Get a new hairstyle, buy a new outfit(something you might not normally wear) take a class in something new and exciting like Karate or Jujitsu. Buy a new perfume or get a new hobby. Be a little mysterious, (he doesn't have to know everything about you!) You might also be surprised by how many new guys come out of the wood work once you make yourself more exciting and there is nothing like a little competition to re-spark a guys interest! Whatever you do please don't get all clingy and start begging. You will only embarrass yourself and the guy will just run instead of walk as he is leaving! If you do all these things and he still isn't interested, remember it's his loss! Good luck!
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Just be yourself, and if he doesn't take interest then good riddance. Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it may be necessary from time to time to give a stupid or misinformed beholder a black eye.
The star of the Muppet Show,
Miss Piggy
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Adviceman is right, you have not provided enough information for us to be able to give an answer. You see, there are dozens upon dozens of possible reasons for his interest in the relationship to be withdrawing. Just so you understand, I will give you some examples:
a possible couple reasons why a guy
A guy's interest level in a relationship can change when...
...a couple has a baby together and he finds himself competing with baby for her attention.
...the girlfriend doesn't trust him and is always questioning him, accusing him of having interest in or relationships with other women...even when he has never done anything to earn her distrust.
...a few months or a year or so has gone by and though he was initially attracted to her, in the process of getting to know her better, has found he doesn't have much in common with her and doesn't even have the chemistry to be attracted romantically/sexually.
We'd love to help, but as you can see, we'd be guessing forever and maybe still not hitting upon the why. And once we DO know the Why, then there will be other specific advice as to what can be done about your situation if anything. Some situations, there is nothing that can be done to change it, just learn how to accept it.
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You have posed your question with insufficient information to give you a good answer. For instance it would be good to know your ages. Why, for one thing it would be nice to have this information so we would know if you are of legal age to go to certain types of clubs and make certain types of purchases.
Do you two live together, do one of you have an apartment where you can have some privacy. This too is important in what type of suggestions can be made.
Asking an open ended question as you have without any type of supporting information makes answering it next to impossible. If you do not wish to share this information for the world to see. Pick an advisor to ask this question of in a private message. Then only you and the advisor can see your information. After the question is answered you have the opportunity to delete the question as well, further reducing the chances someone will know who you are by your question.
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