22 years old... Does it sound like he likes me? Advice please!
Question Posted Sunday May 11 2014, 8:26 pm
I am. 22 year old female. I work in a grocery store with this guy Mitch..several coworkers have confronted me saying that they think he has a big crush on me. I have noticed certain things to. He really doesn't talk to anyone but me, and the ones he does talk to he talks to me in a different kind of way and is most attentive to me. He looks at me in a certain way, he's always extremely excited and happy and always smiling when talking to me, his pupils diliate..he blushes a lot. We click extremely well. He will only bag for me, never anyone else..even if I'm at a register not next to him..he always laughs at things I say even if they're not funny..one time I was talking about a guy I liked and his happy giddy mood went to awkward sad and he looked at the ground and just said yeah..yeah..(totally not his personalityw me).I changed the subject bc I could tell he didn't like it. Does it sound like he likes me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? GiddyGeezer answered Tuesday May 20 2014, 5:27 pm: YES! Of course he likes you! Does he need to hit you on the head with a cantaloupe or something? Unfortunately Mitch doesn't seem to possess a lot of self confidence and he probably thinks you're out of his league. If you really like Mitch and want him to ask you out then try flirting back a little and see if he runs with it. If all else fails ask HIM out for lunch or a cup of coffee. I think once he finds out you are not going to crush him like a bug he will be more than happy to make the next move! Good luck! [ GiddyGeezer's advice column | Ask GiddyGeezer A Question ]
missundersmock answered Monday May 12 2014, 3:44 pm: DEFINITELY he likes you. Everything hes doing sounds like what my now husband of 13 years did before we started out. Very sweet and bashful, and smiling and when i would talk about other guys he would get quiet and sad.
Why dont you start somewhere on neutral ground and invite him to a group event? a concert or someones birthday. Then see how he acts, this way you can either sneak off with him and have a few moments of privacy to find out more if he likes you or not.
He sounds very sweet though based on what youve said. ; )
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