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How can i make my boyfriend see that he's hurting me?
I have nothing but love for my boyfriend and everyday he either yells at me or hits me and now it has cost the life of my 2 week unborn child. How can i make him realize he has a problem and this isn't normal behavior?I dont want to lose him so should i just let it ride and try to change even more?
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Let me put this in perspective for you. This man killed your unborn child. If the fetus was older and was considered viable, meaning able to survive outside the womb, in many states he would be facing either manslaughter or second degree murder charges. He should be facing assault charges on you a charge that is not too late to bring against him.
It is never right for a man to hit a women, for any reason. You are in a battered relationship and it will not stop until you do something to make him stop. Bringing assault charges against him may make him realize he cannot settle every argument with his fists.
I of course do not know what state you live in but many states have domestic battery statutes. With medical evidence that his hitting you caused a miscarriage you should be able to substantiate a charge of Domestic Violence or assault and Battery against him.
I know you say you love him. This time his hitting you cost you your child. Next time it could cost you your life. You need to leave him and you should file charges against him with local law enforcement.
He may or may not go to jail, that will be up to a judge. What you need to do is file the charges and take out an order of protection against him so he stays away from you. The judge can send him to jail and if so he deserves to go to jail for he killed your child. The judge can also put him on probation and send him to anger management classes or both.
You want to make him see what he is doing is wrong; the only way to do so is to file charges against him. Otherwise he is going to continue as he is. If you leave him he will find someone else and he will abuse her too and maybe kill her in one of his rages.
My advice is to get out now and file charges. Protect yourself and any future women he may be with.
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