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is there something better than the clit?
When I masturbate, I only use my clit, because its the only way I know of. Is there something better than just the clit?
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Rainhorse's answer is very good advice! I would add to it by pointing out the sensitivity of nipples. If you want to build to an orgasm, alternating between vaginal and nipple stimulation can help make the resulting orgasm more intense. If you're in a highly erotic, more frenzied mood, try both simultaneously.
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Biologically speaking your clitoris is the most sensitive part and most likely to give you maximum pleasure, and make you orgasm (climax, cum etc...whatever term you prefer). The whole area is sensitive of course, and you don't have to work directly on your clitoris. In fact it can become a little TOO sensitive if you stimulate it for quite a long time. Hard to explain 'too sensitive' precisely, but you might have experienced the sensation when you've enjoyed quite an extended session pleasuring yourself? Probably the best advice is to mix things up a bit as it were, keep things varied. Depending on how you feel at any particular time you pleasure yourself. You might want a fairly short, intense sort of pleasure and relief, or another time you might want to relax and take your time, letting things really build up slowly. In which case, for example you might enjoy lots of less direct stimulation, and then move on to stimulating your clitoris more directly to 'finish off' as it were. A case of what works for you, as and when you fancy it I'd say? Kind of like the way a golfer has a variety of clubs in his bag. You wouldn't expect to play the whole course with just one club would you? Best wishes...and have fun.
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Yes there is something else. Would I call it better? Nope, just different. While the clit gives a more centralized orgasm, the g-spot Can give a total body orgasm. It's located no more than 2 inches in the vagina, usually as far as the 2nd knuckle of your finger and is on the side of vagina towards front side of body, I will give you a couple of links on it.
The g spot is a spongy sort of spot inside the vagina that becomes engorged with blood when you are aroused. It is alongside the urethra which accounts for the feeling that you need to pee just before orgasm, if the feeling is ignored and you continue, then you will have the g spot orgasm.
There is another spot further in, less known, called the A spot same wall of the vagina at the end of it right before the cervix. You cant reach this as easily with fingers but a sex toy can help. Unfortunately if you're not old enough to buy them yet, that will have to wait. I will attach two links. If you have any further questions on the subject, let me know.
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I love this next link for the terrific diagrams and life size models of female genitalia. Part of understanding how to enjoy masturbating and orgasms and what works best for you is to know the anatomy.
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Well, you can use the actual vagina opening, but most people find that that does not work as well. The clitoris is the most sensitive part on the female body, and it is actually the only part of the human body that is there just for pleasure. So, have fun with it!
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