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she is scared will she become pregnent
Because of that bleeding my wife is not allowing me to fuck her she is scared will she become pregnent what can I do she is telling she can only pregnent after her studies
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For the last time; YOU CANNOT MAKE A WOMEN PREGNANT BY HAVING ANAL SEX. HER REPRODUCTIVE SYSTEM CAN ONLY BE REACHED THROUGH VAGINAL INTERCOURSE. GOT IT.
Now if your wife is bleeding when your having anal sex she needs to see a doctor. The reason for the bleeding could be several factors. Internal hemorrhoids which would also make anal sex very painful for her. You could be to rough entering her, not using enough lubricant. You could be overly large in girth and tearing her. Remember the anus is not designed to be opened from the outside in. When you have anal sex you are forcing muscle to do what they are not designed to do and you could be tearing her internally.
One other thing to consider. I fucked a lot of women before I met my wife but I have never fucked my wife; even when we first met. I make love to wife. There is a difference to making love and fucking. If you are fucking your wife instead of making love to her; this too could contribute to her bleeding.
Most important is you get your wife to a doctor and find out why she is bleeding. There is nothing to be embarrassed about in telling the doctor why your wife is bleed. I assure you nothing you say to the doctor will shock the doctor or be something the doctor has not heard before.
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This is your 3rd time writing in. What do you want us to say? That bleeding is normal? That F#*king only a females ass is normal, that she should allow you to f@#k her ass anytime you want to,that women can get pregnant by you sticking your cock in her mouth or ass? You can ask a zillion times and my answer will never be Yes because it just isn't so.
The only reason a guy might have anal sex with a woman is out of their concern about becoming pregnant. Vaginal sex is the more normal way to have sex and a woman can become pregnant that way, unless she is on birth control. I know sex ed isn't taught in schools anymore so guess what, it is up to you to teach yourself and study. She may be in school to study but I can bet my life on it that she isn't studying sex ed cus she seems to know as little as you do. This advice column is for giving advice, not teaching you all about sex, your sex organs and the physiology of them, birth control and pregnancy. We can answer questions yes, and your question may seem valid but I see the bigger picture....two people who are old enough to be married, adults presumably then, one in college and are engaging in doing something without any training or studies before hand. Thats as dangerous as putting a 16 yr old who has never sat in the drivers seat of a car and never studied anything about driving, handing over the keys and saying, go ahead take it for a ride. For everything in life we want to learn to do or engage in, there is a certain amount of knowledge needed to do so and that includes anything sexual.
It would be far better for both you and her to get some books from the libray or study on line on the internet together to gain some sexual education. You need to start from scratch with with they used to teach in schools when I was a kid in 5th grade...starting with the changes that occur in the females body, periods, how she becomes pregnant and for males education regarding their penis.
Frankly, I am surprised that growing up in this world, even without zero education on the subject, that neither of you have heard of birth control, for if you had, you would have checked it out by now I would think. Nevertheless, birth control is what the two of you need, and if you are low income, thats no excuse. Planned Parenthood can help with getting her birth control but if on pill, there are rules to follow and usage and instructions must be followed exactly as the Dr. says cus if you mess up one day, it could be enough to greaten chances of becoming pregnant. While on birth control, you and her should be able to have vaginal sex. Sex by oral or anal is more for the occasional diversion, something different. Not all women get any orgasm or pleasure from anal sex in the ass either.
Isn't there an on campus nurse for her to see at the very leasat? She should have gone to a walk in clinic by now for the bleeding. Does she want to die because she is too embarassed to see a Dr over bleeding from the ass?
Lets ask this one, have you witnessed her actually bleeding from her ass?
Pregnancy would have an impact on her finishing school so I can see why she wants to avoid it, thats why she should be on birth control.
Maybe she has her reasons for not being on it. Have the two of you ever discussed having children and under what circumstances you both are comfortable having any. She only tells you now about not wanting kids until school is done and telling you this at the time she starts bleeding. Has it occured to you that both of you really need to have a heart to heart talk. I do know what you based this marriage on, and if you ever felt that spark and chemistry with each other and were compatible as sex partners, but I feel there just may be a chance that sex isn't fulfilling to her anymore or maybe never was and she failed to say anything. If you don't know something needs fixing, you can't be expected to fix it. So discuss with her if she is being fulfilled, study up on how to give a woman orgasms. Both clitoral and g-spot stimulation do not require penal penetration, you use your fingers. But u have to know what you are doing, semen on your fingers inserted into her can get her pregnant same as cumming inside her vagina...it doesnt matter how the sperm got in there. this and more is what you need to learn. Both of you have to be committed to studying this.
If she has no time for studies, then at least a trip to Planned pregnancy is in order. Teens who have no money go there for birth control...so can you two.
If she's still bleeding, encourage her to see the Dr. because it could be very serious and she can become deathly ill. Do you want to lose her life over ass f@#king because the penis is too rough on that part of her anatomy and is causing these complications in the first place. Imagine how you would feel having to explain what she died of. "She died because I f@#ked her in the ass too often and she began to bleed continually and not see a Dr. about it and got ill and died. Ultimately, I was part responsible for that happening." A bit dramatic but I hope it shakes you awake enough to realize that neither of you are being adult or realistic about your choices here. Grow up and do the right things. Good luck
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Well, if the bleeding you're talking about is her period, it is very unlikely that she would get pregnant. A woman's period is when the egg is expelled from the body, making the egg infertile. This means there should be several days before she ovulates - or releases a fertile egg into the Fallopian tube. The time between the start of a period and the next ovulation is longer than sperm can survive in the vagina, so she would not get pregnant.
However, if the bleeding is not her period, and is breakthrough bleeding, it is still quite possible for her to get pregnant.
A woman is actually less likely to get pregnant if she has sex at the start of her period than any other time. But, if she doesn't want to risk getting pregnant, the best option is always to use protection. Condoms are highly effective, and pretty affordable. After all, what's $10 on a box of condoms compared to the cost of having and raising a child?
So, talk to her about whether or not it's her period, and if she's still uncomfortable, use condoms. Or just use them in the first place. I know I do! :p
Just don't try to push her into anything she doesn't want. That's wrong.
Good luck
~Panda
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