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I want rough sex!
I'm 13 n I want to be fucked:(! How can I relieve my horniness
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With respect can it wait a few years depending on where you live? I understand that your body is developing and we all go through changes and that is probably all it is down to. Sex isn't everything, I am sure you would rather have a connection with someone before you take that step rather than just anyone. You are only innocent once and once it is gone it is gone and you don't want to look back and wish you had waited.
Please take my advice and wait until your body is more developed before you decide to have sex, you are barely a woman, not very much more than a child.
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You're 13 and what you are feeling are the hormones of puberty running wild in your body. Hence the term "Horny." I'm assuming from how you have written to us and the statement; "I want to be fucked," That you are a female.
At your present age your outward appearance may have changed enough that you now look like a women and you may even have your period. You are not yet and still far from being a woman either fully in your appearance or internally.
Yes you most certainly can get pregnant at your current age which is a nasty trick for your body is not truly ready for a pregnancy. Just like older women a women your age who becomes pregnant is consider a high risk pregnancy because of what being pregnant can cause to happen. High risk is generally mean to be life threatening for either the baby, the mother or both.
That is the first problem with having sex at your age as the body is not ready. You’re not ready or mature enough; simply by your statement it says that, to have responsible sex. Your sex organ, your vagina is not ready to be penetrated so it is going to hurt and you could be harmed as well needing a doctors care to repair.
I know what you’re saying I have no idea what I'm talking about for you know better. Unfortunately I have seen this all too often, not with girls your age who had consensual sex but girls your age and younger who have been raped. As a fire fighter I have responded on rape calls.
I also know 13 year old boys. They are too immature to be having sex as well. If you offer them your body they will take it to please themselves. They will not be gentle and you will feel used and dirty. IF you continue to offer yourself to boys you will get a reputation around school that no girl wants. Then you will write us asking us something we will never answer.
To be honest if you were 3 years older I am liberal enough to tell you differently. It would be hypocritical of me to say otherwise. I would probably ask you or at least advise you to wait a bit longer. If your were dead set on having sex at 16 then I would advise you on how to get birth control and how to have safe sex. You’re not 16 your 13 and it is wrong and not safe for you to have sex at this age. This is your hormones talking.
IF you really need to relieve the sexual tension then masturbate. Their is nothing wrong with masturbation. It is natural and safe. According to a survey done on masturbation 85% of the population masturbates. Statistically this means one or both of your parents masturbate.
Masturbation is not wrong or evil. Parents tell their children not to do so for they fear it will lead to doing the real thing. I and many other parents believe it will stop or delay children from having sex before they should.
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Hi there! This type of (I believe genuine, fully sincere) question does crop up quite often in sites of this nature. And the person who posted the question is looking for a a serious reply. I'm reluctant to take the line 'Hey...you're being stupid. Stop thinking about all that horrible sex/horny stuff and go and read your pony books.' I assume you're female (as you say 'be fucked'?). Truth is of course, a girl (or guy) between around 13 to 15 is often going to find they've got all the necessary physical bits and responses to have sex. And as all sexual response is what we might term 'psycho-sexual' (the desire and the act cannot ever truly be separated) then they'll find themselves often and intensely interested in going out and doing it. In short...'feeling horny'. You might stop and think about the possible outcome of simply having sex for the sake of 'having sex'. True, there might be many lads of a similar age or older who would pick up on your desire and be happy to oblige. But what sort of guy do you think you'll be attracting here? Almost certainly one who is just fixing to use you and your body as a sort of 'theme park' for amusement in most cases. One who just wants to feel their side, and see what 'fucking a girl' feels like? I know it sounds cynical but this is so often the case. And consider the possible physical (and guaranteed emotional) entailments & consequences of uncommitted and probably not responsible/safe sex. OK, you've got a lifetime of being a normal, healthy woman in front of you. And of feeling horny...because that's what people do. Women (any and all ages) who choose at some time not to be in a relationship, or are between relationships etc will want to relieve these natural and strong urges. And do so by pleasuring themselves, aka masturbating. I assume you're OK about that? It is a perfectly natural, harmless and healthy thing to do. And one you should find very satisfying, pleasant and relieving. You'll enjoy many of the same physical and mental feelings and responses, with zero risk. Some more so than trying sex with someone you don't really have much connection with. And maybe has no idea of your needs or how to please you either. Isn't that a more tempting idea for now? And when Mr. Right comes along, and you're crazy about each other. And want to have sex with HIM because he's great (rather than just 'be fucked'...that's all), that'll be the right time. And it'll feel just like you hope, I'm sure. As part of a relationship it'll feel great. At the moment I think you're lookig at something you'll almost certainly find disapointing, even unpleasant and possibly with significant consequences. Haven't treated you like a little girl in my reply, have I? OK...you're feeling horny. Enjoy feeling horny, and enjoy relieving it yourself, eh?
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you're 13. go play outside.
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