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Confused
What do you do if you are messing around with a boy, and finding out that he has another girlfriend, and may have a baby by one of his ex-girlfriends. What should I do I mean I don't claim him so what should I do?
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End it. If he has a girlfriend, you have no reason to be seeing each other.
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Well i'm not judging you but if i were you i would end things. I mean i'm not sure if you actually have feelings for him but if you do then thats even more reason to end it. If he's not being faithful to her then what makes you think he will be to you? Plus the kid thing..... Nah thats just way too much drama. Trust me baby girl there are tons of good guys still out there waiting on you. No need to waste your time on someone who would lie & keep things from you!
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Stop the relationship.
He has his priorities, a current girlfriend and who knows how many children out there he needs to take care of. As long as there are women willing to be available as a sex partner on the side, he is not going to learn to grow up and became a man.
If you are currently not ready to get into a serious relationship, and all you want is a sex partner, thats fine, but make sure the guy is really single at the moment and not involved dating another girl who he is cheating on with you. If he lies at first, then the moment you find out, end it.
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Leave him alone. Trust me when I say you don't wanna be involved in that. It's not cool or cute and he's dragging you along. Your just another one of his "gurls" that he's playing. If you don't claim him then your just a sideline that he wants when his gf ain't around. Dont be okay with being a sideline girl. It's not healthy for you. Don't claim a guy that does things like that. You will find a guy that is 100% willing to claim u and willing to give his all for you.! Don't fall for a guy that doesn't fall for you.! Jerks are not worth our queen hearts :) ♥ you can do so much better.! Don't let him downgrade your importance and intelligence.!
Hope this helped.!
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