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Can I get my best friend to talk to me?
My guy friend has been ignoring me for 3 days. From thinking back I can short of guess what I did wrong but there's no reason to get mad at me because if that.
Anyways, I have been trying to get him to talk to me but I didn't succeed. We don't have many class together and when ever I see him he tries to walk away before I can get close to him. I don't want to talk to him when we have class and he leaves immediately before I can say anything.
What should I do?
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As a person who this happens a lot to (I have a sarcastic sense of humour people take it the wrong way) I would try and contact him by way of an online method such as texting Facebook email etc. This way there is a better chance of him hearing you out. Don't say to him you don't know what you did wrong. If he asks just say the thing you think that you did wrong so he can see that you thought about it! I hope you to can sort this out :)
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He's not really acting like a good friend. Any type of relationship takes two. So to have a friendship, he'd also have to put in the effort.
Of course, it might not be you. It might not be your fault. Maybe something else is going on in his life that's been causing him to be distant.
If he's walking away before you have a chance to talk to him, then maybe send him a text message or something. You can even write a note and hand it to him after class. Don't make it some long note, just a quick one saying something like, "Hey just wanted to let you know that I'm here for you. If I did something wrong, please let me know. You're a great friend and I don't want to lose you."
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If he was truly a friend in the first place then he would give you the respect to talk to you. Any relationship takes two, Right now instead of being a two you are a one.
If he has been deliberately ignoring you while you are trying to reach out too him, Try sending him a text message or leave him a voice mail. Don't go on a full blown rant just ask him if everything is okay and that you are here if he wants to talk. If he decides to respond then great, If not then I would wait around a week or so if he decides not too come around then I would start to question where you two stand.
Did he recently get a girlfriend? This might have something to do with it? On the other hand, If he doesn't come around at all maybe he is trying to wean his way out of the friendship
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