Member Since: February 20, 2014 Answers: 17 Last Update: August 1, 2014 Visitors: 2109
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You answered my question about making a job change recently. After initially accepting the offer, I recanted and turned it down. Later that day the HR Manager left me a voicemail stating management really liked me and wanted to sweeten the offer. I called this morning. Instead of making an offer, she asked me what it would take to get me to come. I gave her a number that was 6% more than what Iwas offered, but still well within the stated salary range. She later sent an email saying she gave the proposal to management and that they were going to pursue other candidates. They didn't even make a counter offer, and said they really didn't think I wanted the job. I thought it was bizarre. (link)
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Go they are trying to get you to stay with out them making any other changes.
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I havnent been able to sleep very well for the past week, and when I do it's maybe 5 hours a night with me waking up every 45 minutes in that time span. What should I do to get some sleep? (link)
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Is there anything that has changed in that week such as changing your bedroom in anyway. I know it sounds strange but this can make a difference. If it is caused by stress perhaps something has made you anxious.Writing a diary or talking to someone.If this doesn't work try listen to music as you sleep or have sleeping tablets if this continues go see your doctor as there could be an underlying issue causing you to have lack of sleep.
Hope this helped
RTGMC
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can you get a STD from male masterbation (link)
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No you can only obtain a STD with physical/sexual interaction with an infected person. This act is completely safe.
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We go to the same university (both sophomores). We've known each other for a while, but I was in a failing relationship at the time that we met, so he didn't "try" anything.
He asked me out after my previous relationship ended. We went out for drinks and then I came over to his place. We ended up making out the entire time. He tried to go further, but I stopped him.
Last week, we went out again. He asked me to come over but I declined.
He wanted to see me again, and we made plans to hang out at his apartment for a few hours this weekend(we have pretty cramped schedules and it was the only time that worked for both of us).
Should I be concerned that he's just asked me to come over? How do I prevent things from escalating too fast when I do come over? Does it sound like he's only interested in sex?
Thanks :) (link)
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If your declining but he still wants you to go out with him it sounds like he likes you and respects you.
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Last semester I barely received a C but I want to change levels this semester for this science class. I am becoming very stressed and I am always catching up with the rest of peers, even understanding targets the night before a test, that is if I understand it. I know I'm going to fail this semester because I am already doing bad and already too late to catch up with the rest of the class. Should I not be in an honors class? The pressure is too much and it is causing me to not be myself in everyday activities, including my behavior with my family and/or friends. I know it is better for college, to be in an honors class and persevere rather than change to a regular class but it is becoming too much for me to handle. (link)
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Today, my mom asked me how one of my acquaintances was; she said he seemed depressed. I said that I didn't know, and instantly felt guilty. We had gotten to be pretty good friends at the beginning of the school year, and although we've never dated, I've had a crush on him for a long time and he likes me too. But around Thanksgiving, he completely stopped talking to me, and being egocentric and clingy, I thought that maybe he was sick of me or being standoffish or that he didn't like me in the first place and asked him why he was "ignoring me". But now that I think about it, he has seemed depressed, and that didn't even occur to me because I'm horrible at reading emotions and really, really egocentric. Thinking about how other people are feeling doesn't come naturally to me; I'm very empathetic, but unless it's obvious how someone is feeling, I won't think anything of it. I hate how I just assumed that he was ignoring me out of some negative quality on his part. He's finally started talking to me a little bit more lately, and I was just about to send him a message on Facebook when I noticed that he unfriended me.
I want to apologize, but I have no idea how to do so. If I ask him if anything is wrong, he's probably going to push me away, especially since we've never been close friends. I've been a really horrible friend in a lot of ways, now that I think about it. What should I do?
For clarification, I'm a sophomore in high school. (link)
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Your not a bad friend for not noticing this. Depression is often a taboo subject. So it is not you not being a bad many people don't know the signs of depression.
On way of saying sorry. Go up to him alone and tell him that you are here for him if he needs to talk and then say sorry for not being there before. Then try and strike a normal conversation.
Hope this helps
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I really want my period but I know nothing about it cause no one ever had the talk with me. I took some online quizzes and they said any day now but I need info about it. I don't know if this helps but I'm already wearing a real bra!
Btw I'm 11 (link)
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I am 13 and still waiting
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So I'm 12 year old girl and I hate how I look. I am the ugliest person in the world. I want to look prettier. What can I do with out getting in trouble with my parents?
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Wow your me 1 year younger. Well don't worry! All the ugly people in school are really pretty when they are older! Don't worry you will be as pretty as Megan fox (Don't have surgery)
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I recently began the low carb atkins diet, and i feel very very dysfunctional. I feel as if i cannot attend class due to lack of energy, nausea, and constant heart palpitations. it takes an effort to stand up or move my ligaments. when will i get over this? will i ever get over this? are heart palpitations normal for an 18 year old girl? the problem is, my diet was solely based on all carbs and sugars so i feel as if this is all a reaction to readjusting to a healthy lifestyle. i am not doing atkins for losing weight specifically, but to set up a healthy style for myself in the future. (weight gain is very common in my family). my family raised me to eat carbs for every single meal and i became just as addicted as someone is to nicotine. it's like i can't live without it.
how long will this atkins diet "flu" last? (I'm really scared, guys). do people go into cardiac arrest from this diet? i'm asking this because i am concerned with these heart palpitations.. but i'm trying to stick with this diet no matter what. someone please help me asap. (link)
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Stop it Really please stop. Eat normally just stop.
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So me 17and my boyfriend 18 have been dating for 1 year.He decited he wanted to try anal.which I agreed to but the only problem was he couldn't get it in and ended up raming it on my butt but he didn't get it in.we are both virgins and have no Idea what to do so if someone could help me and tell me how it works that would be great.Also what's your opinion on anus because I have no idea on how it feels. (link)
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No
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What is a good brand of nail polish that's cheaper than 10 dollars that lasts more than a few days? (link)
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Paint
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"Mental Health" probably isnt the right category. My subject pretty much sums it up. Sometimes, right when Im on the edge between sleep and consciousness, right smack between two different places, I swear I can hear someone say my name just faintly, but because of the weird state Im in, it really catches my attention. I dont know where it comes from. Its like it comes from the sleep and sounds in the sleep and in the wake, like it echos or something, its hard to explain, but you probably know what Im getting at. Im just really curious about it. I want to know what it is, why, and why I hear it and only when Im in that state. Also, because it's so faint and brief, I can't distinguish characteristics such as sex or whether I know the voice or not. If you have any ideas or actually know something or have had a similar experience, pleas leave a response, and thanks very much in advance! :) (link)
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It is completely normal don't worry
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what would you do if your underage daughter got pregnant after having consensual sex with a boy? (link)
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Ask her. Treat her like an adult. Help her. Support her desion.
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I have been bad at math mostly my whole life. I am currently in 8th grade and I started out this nine weeks with a B in math because we start at 100 every nine weeks. I'm not sure what I have now but I have been getting bad scores on my papers I get back. I feel depressed and worried. My dad was bragging on me because I had a B. Now, I know I don't. What do I do? Studying doesn't help because I never remember it. I'm so depressed (link)
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B isn't too bad...
Unless you live in America
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My sister is having twin girls next month, but she can't decide what to name them. She asked me for suggestions, but I couldn't think of anything either... Anyway, we need name suggestions. Both of them should start with the same letter and/or sound good together. Thanks! (link)
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Sophie and Amy
Ella and Leah
Nina and Eve
Ellen and Ella
Lucy and Grace
Emma and Megan
Coco and Pops (Bit of a Joke)
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My guy friend has been ignoring me for 3 days. From thinking back I can short of guess what I did wrong but there's no reason to get mad at me because if that.
Anyways, I have been trying to get him to talk to me but I didn't succeed. We don't have many class together and when ever I see him he tries to walk away before I can get close to him. I don't want to talk to him when we have class and he leaves immediately before I can say anything.
What should I do? (link)
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As a person who this happens a lot to (I have a sarcastic sense of humour people take it the wrong way) I would try and contact him by way of an online method such as texting Facebook email etc. This way there is a better chance of him hearing you out. Don't say to him you don't know what you did wrong. If he asks just say the thing you think that you did wrong so he can see that you thought about it! I hope you to can sort this out :)
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Hey everyone, I ate mexican food today and used more sriracha sauce than normal, like a LOT more and now I don't feel great. Can you use too much sriracha sauce, will it make you sick?
Thank you! (link)
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Short answer: No
Long Answer: Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo :)
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