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3 troubled friends
hi! im a 13 year old girl, and i have these two best friends who I love hanging out with, but they don't really like each other. I want to do things with both of them but I don't want them getting into conflict. should I just hang out with them separately? what do I do?
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Your best bet would be to encourage both of your friends that you're supportive of them. You never want one friend thinking that you're choosing one over the other. If they don't agree to make ammends and hangout with you as a group, inform them that you're going to need to seperate time in your schedule for the both of them. Split it so they both have your time equally so there are no arguements. Also, you may want to try and encourage them to work out their differences so you can all become close and do things together.
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If they aren't mature enough to handle hanging around each other without getting into some sort of conflict, it's best to just hang out with them separately.
Being 13 is young and going through hormones and all that doesn't help. So unless you can sit down with them and explain how you feel and they can agree to act civil with each other, just hang out with them separately.
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Unless they learn to exercise some self control over their emotions, you may have to hang out with them separately for a while. If one of them turns their anger on you for no reason, here's the most likely reason why.
Their hormones are just getting the better of them for now. The hormonal changes of puberty don't just bring on your period as your body develops sexually at this age but the influx of these hormones intially has great impact on our emotions. Some girls get sad and weepy all the time, crying for no special reason while others find their anger out of control or irritated with someone for no reason at all. In most cases, its not too bad and if a person knows this is what is happening can put a little extra effort into controlling their temper. But if they have extreme case of out of balance hormones, they may need to be treated by a doctor with medicines for a couple years to bring those hormones back into balance and thus their cheerful nature too. Once teens reach 17, 18 the hormones will have gone back to normal levels on their own.
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