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Will this girl think I am trying to flirt with her if I tlk to her on Valen
there is a girl I worked with in a class in college.
I am not trying to get with her, I think she has a boyfriend.
I am going to be in the same place she is in on February 14 in the campus, I want to go and say hi to her and chat but I am scared because since it is Valentine's Day she might think I am trying to flirt with her or something. Should I decide to just avoid her then? It's honestly a complete coincidence it is Valentine's Day and I am kind of mad it ended up this way
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If you really have no romantic interest in her, then go ahead and drop by. You aren't children anymore, not every encounter between a girl and boy needs to be seen as a possible 'cootie' incident.
But you need to be completely honest with yourself, even if you aren't able to be honest with us here: Do you have romantic interest in her?
If you do, it's quite likely that someone, maybe her, will smell it on you, and that will make your dropping by on Valentines Day uncomfortable, and a bit inappropriate. If she is truly just a friend you want to have a quick chat with, go ahead, but if there are other romantic hopes inside your head, this is not the right way to address them.
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