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Bikini
My mom won't let me get a bikini and I'm 15 and perfectly fine with my tummy showing! I'm 15 and I can't drive how do I get one without anyone knowing?
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You unfortunately can't change your mom's mind but ask her why you can't have one and talk about it.
Good luck!
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You've already asked this question. The problem isn't about you being fine with your stomach showing. The problem is, your mom doesn't want you to have a bikini and you can't change her mind.
I think it's wrong to lie to your mom. I don't know why you think it's ok to lie to people, especially your mom but there are two pieces that aren't bikinis that are cute. There are also really cute one pieces that you should look for. Lying to your family is not a good idea.
You won't be able to get one without anyone knowing. If you did what the first adviser said about getting a card, even then she can see your card history online.
So you just want to let it go. You're 15, you have to do what she says. If not, then there are consequences. Just wait until you are 18.
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You asked this same question the other day, yesterday I believe. What makes you think you will get different answers. The questions don't go away they stay here and new ones are added as they come in. My original answer to you is below this answer.
Do you really want a bikini that bad that you are willing to have the fight that is coming your way when mom finds out and she will find out I can guarantee it.
As someone old enough to be your grandfather I will tell you there is nothing you can think of to try and deceive your mother that she and others have not already thought of. When you think you have someone will see you who know your mom or knows someone who knows you mom and word will get back to her about how cute you looked in you bikini. Then mom will ask you if you had or have a bikini and you will lie and say no and you will be in more trouble.
So I ask you one more time;is having a Bikini worth the fight you will have with your mother over it? Don't say yes because all the other girls are wearing them. For my reply will be; just because they jump of the bridge does it mean you have to as well. Just because they say they will have them does not mean their moms are going to allow them either. Take a wait and see attitude.
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What you are asking for is for us to give you ideas on how to do something behind your moms back. NOT A GOOD IDEA. You are seeking to deceive your mom and your thinking what mom doesn't know won't hurt you or her. WRONG.
You leave the house with the mom approved swim wear and your bikini hidden away at a friends house or in your purse or beach bag. Sometime before getting to the beach you change into the bikini. Success mom has been deceived. ARE YOU SURE?
Are you sure one of her friends wasn't at the beach and saw you and called mom to say how cute you were in your Bikini. Maybe one of the boys took your picture on the beach and it ended up on Facebook. Before you get home the picture makes its way to mom.
Now you�re in for it; you probably going to be grounded or worse. The Bikini you purchased will most likely get thrown in the trash meaning you wasted your money on something you will never wear again.
To be honest with you if mom approves of two piece bathing suits I would go with one of them. There are some very nice suits that will turn boys heads just as easily as a Bikini. Boys your age do not need a lot of stimulation to turn them on so why give them any more than necessary. Sometimes less is more. In this case the less you have showing the more stimulated a boy may be for he now has to visualize what lies under the material.
Sometimes it is the mystic or the mystery that boys find attractive. Why advertise when mystery is so much more entertaining. I speak from experience form the boys side.
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There might be a reason that your mom doesn't want you wearing you Bikini. She probably doesn't want people "looking" at her daughter. That just her being a mom, but if you really want one you could try Ebay. They have really nice clothes and merchandise that you could order as long as you have a credit card or a visa. If you dont maybe you could talk to you mom about getting you a Visa or Credit card.
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