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I'm stuck in the middle


Question Posted Tuesday January 28 2014, 6:24 pm

My friend, who will be called friend1, and my other friend, who will be called friend number2, hate each other and refuse to communicate. Friend1 is hanging out with a girl friend2 dislikes. So friend2 won't hang out with friend1 and friend1 is getting so angry and taking every move she makes and taking as an insult. They want me to take sides, but I just want them to make up, and they won't talk to each other, do what can I do?

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lightoftruth answered Wednesday January 29 2014, 8:44 pm:
Straight up tell them that you are not going to pick sides because this is between them and that this has nothing to do with you so tell them to leave you out of it.

Just tell them to fix whatever is going on and to leave them out of it. If they choose not to, then just let it be. You can't make them talk to each other but it isn't right for them to try to get you to pick sides.

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Mesa answered Wednesday January 29 2014, 5:43 pm:
Well first of, to tell you to choose is wrong of them because the problem between them doesn't even include you. So, they should fix it themselves. They can't just tell you to choose because you're friends with both.

If I were you, I'd tell them to fix it and leave me out of it.

Doesn't matter what the situation is, friends who are true to each other would eventually come together and solve all problems between them.

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