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crazy inlove with my bestfriend!
15/F...
I have a huge crush on "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ bestfriend... But idk if he feels the same. I don't think so. He don't like hugging people and yesterday he hugged me and told me he *̩s gonna miss me. I know that *̩s a bestfriend relationship! Please help? I can't just tell him because I'm scared he'll freak out and never be "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ friend again,,,!
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I agree with Dragonflymagic, if one of you guys are moving, then it's pointless to tell him how you feel. But if it's just like vacation or something where you'll see him again, then just let him know.
I doubt he'll freak out or not want to be your friend even if he doesn't feel the same way.
I think the only way you might freak him out is if you actually tell him that you're crazy in love with him. That might scare him off.
So just tell him that you're developing feelings for him, or you're starting to like him as more than a friend or something along those lines.
If he's a real and good friend, you guys will still be friends regardless of the outcome.
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If he is going to miss you, does that mean one of you is moving away permanently? If so, then there is no future possibility to pursuing a romantic relationship, and therefore no need to tell him. If one of you is going to be gone just for a short trip, but still be able to see each other and go to school together, then you might want to consider telling him.
There's ways to say so without it being as scary to the person you are confessing to. Instead of saying, "I have a huge crush on you" or "I am in love with you" use words that convey that process just starting, not that you are already there. For instance, "I am beginning to have stronger feelings for you than just friendship feelings. or "I think I am beginning to fall in love with you." In my teens, even I didn't know what real love was yet. So if I had it to do over, I'd stick with mentioning having the deeper feelings.
If he truly is your friend, he will not freak out if you tell him this way and he will appreciate that you trusted him enough to tell him. Then based on his answer, you will know how the relationship will continue, just as friends or into the romance zone.
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