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i think im pregnant.
Hi, I am sixteen female, obviously. But over a month ago I had sex with this guy. He didn't get off, and wore a condom, but, I do know that an erect penis leaks semen. My condom was probably ruined because of the place I had it in my purse. Anyways I had been off mt period for about three days when I had sex. I have nor had an actual period since then. Two weeks or a little over after I had sex i had this weird brown spotting for around four or five days and it went away completely. My lower stomach is beginning to feel a little "hard" or "different as well. My period is now late, and I've also been getting very bloated and constipated easily. I get headaches and hungry easier and I'm urinating more frequently. I took a test like three weeks ago and there was a faint line at first but it went away? Could I be pregnant?
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Could you be pregnant?
Yes, it's possible but there's also a good chance that you're not pregnant.
I'd suggest taking another test. If it comes out negative, you're fine and you're period is probably all weird because of stress.
If you're confused about the test, like it was faint or something then go see a doctor and they'll check you and see if you are pregnant or not.
I'd suggest you get on birth control too. Even if you're not planning on having sex again, something might come up and you don't want to have a situation like this again.
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I agree with Razhie. After being pregnant, stress is the second biggest reason a woman will miss her period. Being 16 and having sex then worrying if the condom failed adds up to more than enough stress to miss your period. We get hundreds of letters each month from girls your age asking the same question. Few if any are actually pregnant. Take another home pregnancy test. If it is not conclusive go to a planned parenthood clinic for a medical test.
While you're there you can ask for birth control medication which you can start taking once it is confirmed you are not pregnant. At 16 years old you may be prescribed birth control without parental permission under a federal law called HIPPA.
Your visit to the clinic, the examination, the pregnancy test and prescription are all confidential. If your parents were somehow to find out you visited the clinic, they could not see or in anyway know of the reason or outcome of your visit without your written permission to the doctor.
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You should take another test. Most don't claim to be accurate until 3 days - 3 weeks after your missed period.
Is it possible that you are pregnant? Yes, I suppose it is. I suspect you aren't, and that you are psyching yourself out, and that your 'symptoms' are mostly in your imagination and being caused by stress. I think that is the most likely explanation.
As difficult as it is, the best thing you can do for your body and your mental health is try to relax. There is very, very little semen in pre-cum. Although it is possible to get pregnant without the male ejaculating, it's not highly likely. Between that fact, and the condom, I doubt very much you are pregnant.
If I had to put money on it, I'd put my money on 'Not Pregnant'. However, it is certainly possible, just really unlikely.
Take another test. If it comes back negative, you MUST relax. Your stress is probably just throwing your body for a loop. Many women's period wont come, or will be delayed, by extreme stress.
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