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I need some serious help
I need some serious help , cause i'm one step closer into losing my sanity.First of all , my parents are divorced and this is the main reason of my life corruption.When i was kid(i'm 17 now)my life used to be filled with joy and everything was going smoothly and i used to be with my besties ,until my parents had a huge fight together and they got divorced , even though my mom was very patient with my dad's shitty attitude.After a couple of days my dad forcefully sent my mother and i to a foreign country(Egypt),originally i'm from America(NY).Ever since i came to this country my life went from perfect to absolute shit in all angles , my girlfriend broke up with me just because i'm distant from her , my mother is treating me like shit i'm having fights with her everyday , education here is terrible , my health is getting worse(i get permanent headaches) , i feel so alienated here , and this year i should go back to America(without my mother) for college and i'm gonna have to put up again with my dad , who ruined my life .I lost everything , what am i supposed to do , i know that nobody is perfect but this is just too much :( .Thanks
email - ahmedscater2@hotmail.com
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If in going to college in the U.S. you think you are stuck having to live with Dad just to cut costs and attend college, then you need to start checking out other options now.
What does college dorm housing cost? Or, can you advertise through the college somewhere online that you are looking for a roommate or roommates attending the same college to split the rent on a place nearby. Thats what our daughter did and got a good roommate. She did not have to take a job to be able to afford this, her grandpa gave her monthly money to cover that. She had grants and such that helped cover school it self. Do you have any friends whose parents you got to know well? Someone you could stay with while you there this summer, looking for a job, looking for roommates and the perfect rental if not opting for dorm housing. But the planinng should start now. Think of any close friends or adults you might be able to ask to help you with any part of this process of your transition of coming back, getting set up and starting college. Maybe someone would be willing to help. Even little stuff they can do, all will help.
Good luck.
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DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF YOUR OWN HAPPINESS. I know that your family has been there for you your whole life, but if they start making you unhappy, that doesn't mean you have to put up with it. If you go back to America, you do not have to deal with your dad. You will be in college making a life for youself. If your family makes you feel uneasy or sad, tell them.. honesty is the best policy. If someone is making you unhappy, be honest and tell them. If they get mad at you for trying to understand why they treat you the way they do, then you don't have to deal with that. I know life makes you think thta family is always the most important thing in life, but you are the most important thing in your life.. Make yourself happy because in the end, you are truly the only one who is looking out for you.. i am here for you.
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