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No contact w/e
I was in his neighborhood earlier today and i asked him the day earlier if he was busy tomorrow cause i made a lpt of dog biscuits and wantedto give some to his dog and if bpossible if we can hang out. He said idk yet so im guessing replying to the if he was busy sort of thing. Then i was in front of his house because the entire morning he didnt text me back so i thought might as well drop off the cookies if hes not home since i cane all the way there. And after a while he texted becaxk pretty much im summarizong as you cant just drop by someones house without telling them and expect to be let in im helping my parents around the house right now and dropping pff things isnt stayin outside and waiting t be let in but instead to drop off the stuff and leave. /: was i doing something stupid... Honestly i just wanted to see him one last time to see if i could like know what he thinks in person cause like o said things were dofferent in person. Should i ask to hang out again? Idk its like witer break right now and i want to see him once at least this break for sure because once school starys i lose my chances because of schoolwork and etc.
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Should you ask him again to hang out? YES! Its a big yes because my telling you otherwise has not made any impression.
Only through some of the harsh hurtful things in life do we learn what works and what does not. I think you may be one who learns from many many repeated experiences that don't work. If it takes once having someone act indifferent to you, or whether it take 5 experiences, or 50, eventually you will learn, I am certain of that.
Think of when you were a toddler and mom told you not to touck the oven door cus it was hot. When you did, it was painful. Did you touch it again? Maybe once more time, but it was obvious, wasn't it, that messing with a hot oven door was going to hurt you. Eventually you learned. In relationships, things aren't so black and white and easy to learn, but the lessons must be learned one way or the other. So keep calling, keep texting, keep showing up at his house or following him where ever he goes. Either he will get mad but do nothing else, or the worst case scenerio, if he feels like he is being stalked, he might talk to the authorities to see what can be done.
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No, you shouldn't ask him to hang out again.
You shouldn't even talk to him, you shouldn't try to find random excuses to see him or hang out with him.
He's going to think you're obsessed with him and he's obviously not interested in hanging out with you. It sucks, it really does, but you're setting yourself up for heartbreak over and over again and ruining your future chances with him.
Leave the rest of this break for yourself and taking care of yourself. Don't text him, message him or do anything with him.
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