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how can i die in house except knife


Question Posted Friday December 27 2013, 8:17 pm

My boyfriend broke up with me.I want him back but he don't. I have a friend who talk with me everyday.My family don't know about my boyfriend or my friend.My friend is a boy and my family don't like me talking with a boy.Now my whole family knows that I always talks at midnight with somebody.They are going to find it out.If they finds that my friend is a boy, they are going to hate me anyway.So,I want to die to show my boyfriend that I could die for him and I want to die to get myself out of all this trouble.Someone give me a way to die. please!!


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squidgirlismaiwaifu answered Monday December 30 2013, 3:58 am:
Dear, don't kill yourself. You've got much more to live for. Fuck your family, if they don't want you near one of your friends move out.

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adviceman49 answered Saturday December 28 2013, 8:41 am:
Your being mellow dramatic about this. Killing yourself to prove to someone you would die for them proves nothing. If you slowed down and reasoned with yourself you would see it actually a quite stupid thing to do for you would never know if he knew or even cared.

Living and moving forward, showing him what he is missing by breaking up with you. Now that is a plan that will hurt him because now you have control. You can decide if you want him back or if you are better off without him.

Speaking as a parent there is very little if anything a child can do to cause us to hate them or stop loving them. You can do things to strain that love to the breaking point, though I know of no parent who has ever stopped loving their children. There is a big difference between hate and getting mad or upset.

If you are that young that your parents feel you are too young to be dating or spending all your time talking with boys. Then yes I would suspect when they find out they will be upset with you. To hate you for disobeying them? I truly doubt it. Once again you are over dramatizing the issue. Have a little more faith in them. Yes you will loss some of their respect and trust and that is you’re doing for not following their rules. This does not add up to them hatting you.

So calm down, put the knives away and prove to your former boyfriend that he not you is the big loser here. You will have plenty more boyfriends before you find the man you marry. Yes each time you and a boyfriend split up it will hurt some. As my mother would have said to you; "There are plenty more fish in the sea." "Pick yourself up; re-bait your hook and go fishing again.

You have a long life ahead of you. Don't let this one idiot of a boyfriend ruin your life. He doesn't know what he is missing. Show him what he is missing by finding someone else.

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lazybookworm_ answered Saturday December 28 2013, 7:11 am:
Commiting suicide isn't really a way to solve your problems. I know you feel really bad about what's happening to you right now but it does not mean that you should kill yourself.

For yoir boyfriend, I think he is a jerk for breaking up with a girl like you. You should move on. There are many other boys who deserve your love.

For your family and that friend of yours, I think you shoild say the truth. Your family loves you, thats why they don't want you to talk to boys. They just want to protect you. I know they will forgive you, because if they don't love you, they shouldn't have cared for you ang helped you grew up until now.

God does not give you challenges and problems that you can't solve. Well it's still up to you if you'll waste this precious life.

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