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Lower back pain after masturbation


Question Posted Friday December 27 2013, 5:45 pm

I am a 15 year old female and have been masturbating for 4 years now. My parents don't know and I'd like to keep it that way. After I was done masturbating, I felt fine, but after 2 or 3 minutes, I was experiencing terrible lower back pain ln my sides. Does masturbation have anything to do with the pain? Is there anything I can do to ease it?

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adviceman49 answered Saturday December 28 2013, 9:04 am:
First; there is nothing wrong with masturbation, it is just something not spoken about in polite conversation though according to a recent survey 85% of us masturbate. To put it another way in a household of 4 people 3 of them masturbate. Masturbation is part of sexual foreplay which is mutual masturbation, which includes oral sex, fingering and hand jobs.

Second; You have probably caused some muscle pulls possibly do to the intensity of your orgasm or the intensity and length of you masturbation. You probably have nothing to worry about.

since you are 15 years of age and this pain comes after doing something with your sexual and reproductive system. You can by act of Congress see a doctor without parental knowledge or consent. The Act or Law is called HIPPA and while this law covers many things within it is a clause that covers young people 14 years and older. Young people 14 and older for the purpose of their reproductive health can visit a doctor with or without parental consent.

Parents may not be in the exam room when the young person is having any exam related to their reproductive system. Parents can have no knowledge of these visits, what you are treated for or what you and the doctor discuss. When it comes to your reproductive health you have total confidentiality. Only by written consent to the doctor can release this information to anyone and this includes your parents. You can even ask for birth control medication and the doctor must prescribe. All you need to say to the doctor or nurse is you invoke your rights under HIPPA.

Congress did not write this law to promote sex among young people. They wrote this law so young people would seek a doctors help for anything related to their reproductive health that they might be too embarrassed to go to a parent with. Congress felt by grant young people this limited medical confidentiality would both help educate them about their reproductive systems, and stop the spread of STDs.

Short answer: While I don't think you have anything to be concerned about. If you want you can go to any women's clinic or a doctor of your own choosing to be checked out. Do not be concerned to tell the doctor you masturbate. It is normal to do so for one thing. Second the purpose of the law that allows you to see a doctor without parental consent is so you can and will be truthful in discussions with the doctor. If you are not truthful with the doctors they cannot help you.

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Dragonflymagic answered Friday December 27 2013, 11:46 pm:
The only thing I can think of is that in orgasm, lots of muscles in the lower abdomen contract vigourously, enough so that these muscles may have an effect, a pull on the lower vertebrae of the back, which if they are misaligned could be why there is pain. I think it's worth seeing a chiropracter. If this is the only time you experience back pain and no other, you can always try asking at Planned Parenthood. They help teens with anything related to sex and the reproductive organs and the fact that you've seen them must be law be kept confidential so your parents cant know. Its the same for any doctor.
If you begin to notice lower back pain with other activities, you need to tell the parents you feel you need to see a chiropracter. they dont have to know what first caused it as there are many things that can cause it. One of my daughter tripped and fell as she ran to catch the bus and developed a lower back and knee pain that wouldnt go away. Once she saw a chiropracter, it was discovered that the fall was enough to knock her knee joint and lower back out of kilter.
You can try exercises that are good for stretching lower back and strengthening it. This you might find by a search on line, or in a book at the library or from a chiropracter. But I can't say that will ease it or cure it. Seeing medical professionals is the best way to go.

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