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Are wrong. I am not trying to get with her. But I still like talking to her and seeing her. I am not going to get with an engaged woman. People are purposefully misinterpreting my question so I have no choice but to ask it again reworded
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Usually, if people are misunderstanding you over and over again, that is a sign that you are the one with the problem, not everyone else.
Everyone is interpreting your questions this way because you clearly have an unhealthy romantic obsession with this women. It's not because they are trying to purposefully be mean to you - it's because no matter how you try to phrase what you are doing and thinking, it's obvious to others that you have a problem.
It's great that you are not actually trying to interfere with her relationship and engagement, but it's not unfair of your readers to assume you are - your question doesn't present you as a person who understands boundaries and respect. You are showing up at her work and her classes, inventing reasons to see her, and now, worst of all, you are imagining that her physical behaviour towards you might 'mean' something.
That's the stuff of crazy town no matter how you word it, and people recognize that behaviour and thinking no matter what words you use. "Rewording" what you are doing and thinking isn't going to help much, because it's the behaviour and thoughts that are the problem, not the way you talking about them.
It doesn't seem like you can grasp the error of your own ways here, so I'd strongly recommend you talk to a therapist or counsellor about your thoughts and behaviours. What you are doing here isn't reasonable, or respectful, or even normal. You are obsessing to a degree that may very well be harmful to you, and is almost certainly going to cause problems if you don't stop.
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