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Do I text him?


Question Posted Monday December 23 2013, 10:23 am

Okay so the boy I like asked for my number the other day and that evening we texted for about 3 hours. Anyway, I'm not sure whether to text him again - I haven't seen him since we last texted so there's not really anything for me to text about :/ I don't know if he'll be expecting me to text though because he started the conversation before.

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Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday December 24 2013, 10:16 pm:
Yes, text him. If a guy has to initiate all the time, he may get the impression that a girl isn't that into him.

I agree with the others too on how to start a text. I love an article by wiki-how that goes over this in more detail. Keep the conversation opener casual, also don't talk too much about yourself, find questions to ask him. If calling or texting after the holidays, you can ask him how his Christmas was. What did he do. Does he have anything about the holidays he likes in particular.You could share what your favorite thing about the holiday season is. Ask if he or his family have any holiday traditions and be ready to share some of your own once he has answered. Or he may not think of anything to answer until you share and that triggers a memory for him to share.

When ever you can in a conversation, find a way to compliment or encourage him, it shows you really care about him more than casually without coming on too strong. And here is the link to wiki article if you are interested. It says how to flirt which I believe is mislabeled. It sounded more like texting and conversation advice to me.

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lightoftruth answered Tuesday December 24 2013, 4:13 am:
If you want to text him, then text him. I agree with MsAdvicenator, just keep it light. Something like, "Hey, whats up", "Just wanted to say hi", things like that. If he seems like he's interested in texting again, then just keep the conversation going like how your day went, just anything in general.

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MsAdvicenator answered Tuesday December 24 2013, 2:58 am:
You can just keep it light..say something like how's your day going or what are you up to. Dont stress too much ..when you just start talkin to someone you can get nervous but if he likes you he'll keep the conversation going. Guys arent usually big texters so don't worry if he doesn't talk to u everyday you know.

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