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in dilemma help me out
i am going to get marry in next month. i took small dose of antipsychotic because excess anxiety distracts me during stress (as prescribed by psychiatrist). i am normal for the past 1 year except for little bit of anxiety. i didnt enclose about my medication to my would be. she was deeply in love with me.she is a doctor.how can i take medicine without knowledge of my would be in future
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You need to tell your wife.
You can't keep this secret. She will find out sooner or later.
You need to have an honest conversation with her about this. If she is a doctor, she will be in a good position to understand and support you.
You can't lie to her. That would be a horrible idea, and a breach of trust. Tell her the truth.
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You can't and you should not take medications that your spouse is not aware of. This is not only the moral thing it is the right thing as from the day you marry she is your next of kin. She needs to know these things about you in the event of an medical emergency not as a doctor but as your wife.
Your intended is also a doctor. As a doctor and your future wife she will understand about medications you may be taking. Especially medications that are taken on an as needed basis. Also as a doctor and your wife she will be constantly observing you as you wife and will be able to assist your doctor in finding out why you have anxiety problems.
Stress does cause anxiety. There are other ways of dealing with stress. Medication is one way. It is quick and generally efficient. A better way is to find out the type of stress, there are different types, that trigger your stress. Learn how to avoid or deal with them better than reliance on medications. This takes working with a psychologist.
If your Bride truly loves you and as a doctor also understands anxiety problems. I see no reason not to inform her. Minor anxiety brought on by stress should not be a deal breaker for her. If it is she wasn't the women for you and she to my thinking is not much of a doctor.
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