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I'm a liar; and I need to change
Hi; im Michelle.
I'm 18 years old and yesterday I broke up with my boyfriend of two years. But that's another story, these past few days i've been a dirty, awful liar. The yesterday , black friday i told my parents i was going to class (they didnt know it was cancelled) the plan was to go to Panera bread and chat to this other guy who I have gotten soft with. Unfortunately, as i left my parents drove by and saw me. I denied , denied, denied until i finally gave in. No punishment, just neglect. Today, I called out from work because of the break up (it wasnt bad. we stayed friends) I didnt tell my parents. I went to Panera (derp) again to try and get my mind off of things. I didnt tell my parents in the first place because they would have told me my reasoning was stupid.
I was caught, my dad ended going to my job due to a malfunction in the seafood depo. He didnt see me anywhere. In the end, he knows where I am right now.
My mother has a temper, and I dont want to go home. Everyone is going to hate me, ignore me, i'll be alone. I want to be hinest with them but I know they won't understand... I'm not sure what to do..
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Hello Michelle ^^
You see, every problem is temporary, so take it slow. Even if you're thinking that you'll be ignored, it won't last long. Blood is thicker than water, no matter what happens. By the way, God won't test you with calamities beyond your capability and my other advice is to not foresee bad things yet which can cause you to become immensely afraid of the future time. Anxiety disorder will be increased, trust me.
Since you already possess the will to change yourself, then go for it. There's no use for me and the rest of the people here to rage about the mistakes that you committed. You know yourself best. The thing is, we need to be brave in facing the consequences of our actions even if it means tears and so forth. Do be patient and strong. Convince your parents the best way you can to prove that you're a better person now and you can always be that way.
This is your life, and you can do whatever it takes to change :)
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Obviously it's not okay to lie but it's okay to make mistakes. I think you're going through a phase right now. And you should tell your parents that you broke up with your boyfriend so they understand. I think the main reason of your dishonestly is from your breakup with your boyfriend. You just might be sad or upset and it's causing you to act like this. Don't worry, everyone lies in their life and it's absolutely wrong but it's not like you do it a lot and now you've learned to not do it again. Also, your parents are not going to hate you. You need to go home and tell them everything that happened with your boyfriend, or at least tell them you broke up and if they ask why and you don't feel like explaining, then say you're not in the mood and I'm sure they'll understand.
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