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feeling lost in highschool within my group of friends
14/f Hi, I've just started highschool so I'm just a minor niner... But I still have my same friends from Elementary school but lately I've been feeling lost/unsure if I still belong. .Like my friends have been making other friends and so have I but I feel as if our relationships aren't the same and u don't matter as much bc they don't talk to me all the time and they've been busy around the school... But day I felt like one if my friends who I'm not that close to tried to shake ne off of their tail when searching for a teacher.. I feel alone and have no one to confide in now that I no longer have a bff.. I feel not that close to anyone really and I never quite know what to sat or if they even want me around. .What do I do about this?
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i know How you feel. i been there and sometimes people get to high school. sometimes people wants experiences meeting other people and learn to grow. as you get out high school. you be on your own and you have a job and you have different friends. sometimes it good have new friends and and experience new things. don't think they are ignore you sure they still care. sometimes people do fall apart. because things change like everything doing on in there life will affect them. just try meeting new people and if one friend come back sure mean they need you. just let them know that you always be there if they need you. say hello and smile and keep walking with your head up. :)
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Once you get into high school, you start losing and gaining friends. At this point in your life, you and your friends are finding new interests and people who share those interests. On top of that, you all are changing and you won't always keep the same friends.
So it's fine to keep in touch with the friends you have now. But don't limit yourself. If you feel like they've been trying to push you away, speak up. Tell them that you've been feeling a little left out and see what they say.
Besides that, you should go make some new friends. It's never bad to have more friends anyways. I made most of my friends in high school by sitting with them in class and talking to them in there.
Also, joining clubs that you are interested in will really help because it will give you a bond with those people who are also in it.
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