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14/f So I had this friend let's call her "Jo" and since we got in a huugeeee fight after we graduated Elementary school, she's been messing up my life... She stalked me on social media and talked shit about me.. But now that highschool has started, I barely see her so when my friend (let's csll her Amy) came up to me and said Jo was gossiping about me I grew concerned... Obiviously in life people are going to talk behind your back, gossip and spread rumors and no matter what anyone says about them not being affected at the end of the day, they are. So when I heard Jo was talking about me, I told my mom who wanted to solve this problem once and for all, She called Jo's mom who arranged for us to come over and talk.Long story short, Jo said she wasn't talking shit about me (she's a liar btw) and her mom believed her. But after another friend had a party this weekend and didn't invite me bc maybe it wss last minute but anyways I'm not convinced she's stopped tskking about me and I feel like she's out to ruin my reputation... am I being paraniod or a narcissist? (link)
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People will talk about people till day you die. sorry that little out there. but truth is they have no life of there own and nothing better to do and she waste her time renting you in her brain thinking about school and important stuff. she try to get you down make her happy. just walk with your head up high and show that you not let her bring you down. maybe if you want try something maybe writ a letter and let it be and show her it not bother you. maybe some day she move on something else. it pretty bad someone do that. plus if people want listen to the stuff there sure wasting your time. just ask don't waste my time i have better things to do listen all that.
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14/f Hi, I've just started highschool so I'm just a minor niner... But I still have my same friends from Elementary school but lately I've been feeling lost/unsure if I still belong. .Like my friends have been making other friends and so have I but I feel as if our relationships aren't the same and u don't matter as much bc they don't talk to me all the time and they've been busy around the school... But day I felt like one if my friends who I'm not that close to tried to shake ne off of their tail when searching for a teacher.. I feel alone and have no one to confide in now that I no longer have a bff.. I feel not that close to anyone really and I never quite know what to sat or if they even want me around. .What do I do about this? (link)
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i know How you feel. i been there and sometimes people get to high school. sometimes people wants experiences meeting other people and learn to grow. as you get out high school. you be on your own and you have a job and you have different friends. sometimes it good have new friends and and experience new things. don't think they are ignore you sure they still care. sometimes people do fall apart. because things change like everything doing on in there life will affect them. just try meeting new people and if one friend come back sure mean they need you. just let them know that you always be there if they need you. say hello and smile and keep walking with your head up. :)
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