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PLEASE HELP!!!


Question Posted Sunday November 17 2013, 7:13 pm

So I'm a junior and I've been talking to this freshman for quite sometime now. I decided to ask him to my prom like a week ago through a letter and he replies through a letter saying no but maybe as friends and then later on says that he's not the prom going type of guy. I told him that I wanted to go as friends so I know I should've put that into the letter. but anyways, we haven't talked since he declined my prom proposal. I still like this guy a lot but he's been hanging out with another junior girl a lot. Should I wait and see where things go or should I move on?? If I don't move on, should I ask him to prom later on in the year again and see if he changes his mind?? I don't know what to do.

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Xui answered Monday November 18 2013, 1:40 am:
Unfortunately, He has declined the offer to go to prom with you. If he wanted to go as friends, I would assume he would of offered to go as your friend.

It sounds like he is not interested in going to the prom nor does he want to give you the wrong impression of getting your hopes up. You noticed he has been spending a significant amount of time with another girl, Therefore he already has his eyes set and possibly has plans on asking her to go with him. You should move on or ask someone else.

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lightoftruth answered Monday November 18 2013, 12:05 am:
I'd move on, especially if he's talking to another girl. If he does like that girl then it would look bad if he went to prom with you.
I would never wait around for a guy to change his mind. He had his chance, he missed out, so just go find someone else

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thatweirdgirl answered Sunday November 17 2013, 8:12 pm:
Hey there sweetie, it seems as if this freshman is trying to send a subtle message. I think you should definitely move on, if he wanted to go he would've said yes. If he's hanging with another girl, maybe he doesn't want to give anyone the wrong idea. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best! Take care and be safe.

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