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my friend loves me and he wants to finger me l love him but l am not in a situation of getting in a relationship
l have a friend its been a month since we started talking he loves me l know hecause he told me we have been kissing only now he wants to have sex with me should l do it with him. l have my boyfriend but we are not in good books and l actually no longer like my boyfriend.
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You and your boyfriend need to get things straight first,break up if necessary and if you are going to stay with each other, let your friend know up front. With the sex part, I say no because you've only known him for a month and it's a lot of emotions out there that shouldn't get in the way of breaking a good friendship up! It's okay to love each other, but if he loves you like he says, he can definitely wait til you are ready and definitely made up your mind on your boyfriend! I really hoped this helped.
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First off, if you no longer like your boyfriend, you need to break up with him. It's wrong to stay with someone you don't like.
It doesn't sound like this other guy loves you. It just sounds like he wants to mess around with you. You shouldn't have sex with him, especially if you have a boyfriend. If you're doubting it, it's another reason to not have sex.
Get your relationships in order before you start messing around.
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He doesn't love you. He just wants to fuck you. Don't let him.
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You don't like your boyfriend? First off I think that is a completely separate issue. I would break it off with your boyfriend and take care of that, because there's no use being in a relationship with someone you don't like. However, I wonder if you don't like him because this new guy who 'loves' you is in the picture?
I would absolutely NOT let this guy 'finger' you. How old are you? I know its difficult to say no sometimes and being young sometimes it might feel like you love someone after a month, but let me assure you, the best is yet to come. This guy doesn't sound like he loves you, it just sounds like he wants to get his dick (or finger) wet and that's it. He's probably a teenager and sounds like he's after that one thing. Ditch him.
Is he the reason you don't like your current boyfriend anymore? If so, still get away from this guy. He sounds like bad news.
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