It is not uncommon for things to change when people marry. We sometimes go from the romance to the comfortable terry cloth bathrobe life if you understand my meaning. Of course this is a guess on my part.
Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday September 25 2013, 3:42 am: You don't share much. We dont know if she's still with you but acting cold and aloof or if she left you after 4 yrs of dating and 1 yr of marriage.
If you were not right for each other in the first place and tried to force this to work cus you both were "nice" people, nice isn't always enough...eventually a relationship or marriage without that spark or real chemistry is going to run out of gas so to speak, break down.
Or, if everything was fine and then abruptly changed, it could be something you said or did that has her upset enough to not talk or to leave you.
See, without knowing what caused your situation, all we can do is guess. Length of time together doesn't guarantee a healthy realtionship. Happily ever after doesnt happen just because you wish it so, it only happens when both parties put in maximum effort to make it so. That piece of advice can fit many situations. For anything more specific, give us more detail. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
Xui answered Wednesday September 25 2013, 12:49 am: I would need a more detailed description to be able to help you. Please tell me the situation and I will be glad to edit my answer. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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