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I like a boy.. I'm afraid he doesn't like me back!
I'm a Female. 13 years old . and it was back to school. so on the second week of school i met this boy.! and it was love at first sight!! well, for me it was. we don't talk that much. and sometimes he does mess with me. (in a friendly way) and I have kinda, sorta fallen in love! <3 how can I get him to ask me out?
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Lets clarify first, you want a guy asking you out who is very interested in you right, not one who you can pester into asking you out who doesnt like you in the first place.
So the real issue here is not first how to ask him but how to know when someone is attracted to you.
There is body language that we all do when interested in someone else. When seated we will change our posture to face the other person and lean towards them ever so slightly as we become more interested, we find reasons to touch the other people, even seemingly accidental brushes of the arm against another. An interested person will stand close enough to you to be at arms length away. Ever have someone walk up to you and stand too close? It felt like they were crowding your space and you had to take a step backward? Its because you had no attraction to him or you would have welcomed the nearness. Another body language trick is that we mimic each others actions subconsciously not really aware we're doing it. Next time he's around and has eye contact with you, try moving your hand through your hair and see if he touches his hair in some way, touch your face like for scratching an itch and see what he does. If he is messing with you as you say, its a sign he is interested in you, unless he messes with every girl in your little circle of friends.
So what you will need to do is flirt back and see what he does. He will need this more blatant show of interest to know you are as interested in him as he is in you. Once you've shown him your interest by flirting, it will not be so strange to just come out and ask him if he'd like to go out together. If he's interested, he'll now know you are too and you aren't asking just to have a boyfriend. He'll likely say Yes! Heres a site on how to flirt by touch.
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Start with being friends with him. If he randomly asked you to be his girlfriend, and never was in the friend stage, the relationship won't last very long.
Once you begin talking to him more and you guys consider each other friends, try hanging out outside of school, even with a group of friends. Then eventually you'll know how he feels for you.
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First of all dont rush anything because at the end you get hurt ... but what you can do is that you should hangout with him at lunch go to the movies together just get to know him first then let like a month pass by .. after that month get him alone by himself nd confess him that you like him nd everythingg cx but tell him in person .. this works sometimes but REMEBER DONT rush things girl !!(: if anything inbox me !(:
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