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Older guy friend
Ok so I'm a freshman in a performing arts elective at my high school. i participated as an 8th grader so i met the whole group already. I became friends with a guy who is a senior now.
Whenever we see each other we'll poke and run around poking and touching each other (in a total innocent way!) and we'll joke around and I'll give him hugs and vice versa. But a while back he and i where talking about a fundraiser we did together and i was joking about how the leader told him to be the muscle and me to look good and he told me "You always do" and another guy I'm friends with offered to help and in a rude way my senior friend he was not needed. And later he was sort of picking on the other guy (and he is not mean at all!!) and they're friends!! I am kind of confused, Is he okay?
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The question is, Is he okay. and you want to know if its normal that he kind of picked on a male friend? Yeah, its fairly normal for guys, its the alpha thing, the top dog thing. Male animals in nature will battle it out with each other and the stronger gets the female. It can be physical strength but for humans, its the males maybe how have a better self esteem, more friendly, etc...it
Now if you're asking if he's okay and safe to date...there's no way for us to know that. Thats what the process of conversing with, hanging out with and dating is, to find out more about the people so you can decide that they are great or there are things that you won't tolerate in behavior and you move on then. But until that point in time, or if it never comes and you have great chemistry and later on, a deep love developes on both sides, then the person is right for you. Even a great guy can be the wrong person for you and right for another girl. It isn't ever that something is wrong with you or you need to change. Remember that. In the mean while, enjoy spending time getting to know him.
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