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satisfaction: how could I possible satify my future husband?
i hav done sex many time.im unmarried n nw my parenta want to made my merriage wd any other person. hw can i satisfy my husband.and my vijaena is becoming loose.plz help me
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I am thinking that more of your concern is that your husband to be, once you find one, will believe that you are still a virgin because you have a certain tightness down there?
I don't know what country you are from but these misconceptions about women and virginity are found all over the world. In some countries even today, women who are not believed to be virgins are shunned, mutilated or killed.
The crazy thing is that there are virgins who have been put to death because they never bled on their wedding night? Not all women have a tight hymen and don't even really know what they have down there. The vagina and the hymen can stretch but will go back to normal, whatever normal size is for her.
Think of this, a woman gives birth through the same canal, the baby is a pretty good size and makes it through the vaginal area with no problem because it stretches like a rubber band.
The only time there is a problem in birth is if the bones can not spread any further apart to allow baby to exit the womb. Bones do not stretch.
So these women, have multiple kids and still can enjoy sex and so can the husbands. It helps if she practices Kegel excercises using the same muscles a woman uses to hold back the flow of urine. Try using this exercise. Clench the buttock muscles too. I have done this for years. I had 3 vaginal births and husband gets plenty of friction. I have learned how to squeeze these muscles when he is inside and its a very strong squeeze that the man can feel for sure. We are in our fifties and he is starting to have difficulty staying hard, that is until I start squeezing on top of the friction and then he is fine. It's one of the best things you can do for yourself right now and will be enjoyed by your husband one day.
You can do the research on the web but heres one link to get started.
www.wikihow.com/Do-Kegel-Exercises
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First of all, this question is so badly put together that I'm not even sure what it really is. If you want good advice, we need to be able to understand the question. If english is not your first language, go to a translation site, use a dictionary, or something, to make sure that your question is at least readable.
As far as your vagina goes, if it's loose, it's loose. There's not a lot of ways to reverse that. You can try kegel exercises, but other than that, you're stuck where you're at. There's also more sexual activities you can partake in other than vaginal penetration. You can use your hands, mouth, toys, anal (if you're into it) etc. If you marry someone that loves you, then he shouldn't mind.
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